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I cannot believe how kind everyone has been on here the advice has been so helpful and hearing other peoples point of view have been an enormous help.

I have decided to try and make it work with my h, this is a huge step from me. He has always wanted this from the minute I found out. I am trying to put the past behind us and move forward but I know to give us a chance I need to let go which is really hard.
In the back of my mind is that he is getting away with having an affair and there has been no real punishment for him. I know this is wrong and he has suffered with seeing myself and our families hurt by what he has done but I feel I am making all the sacrifice and he is getting away with it! I know he doesn't see it like this and keeps saying he will never let me down again but it is hard.

Thanks again all xx