[Raymond]

First of all Purple Lady I would make absolutely sure there is nobody else. This could even be in the form of an online relationship or even porn.

If you are sure this is clear then it could be that something is affecting his relationship with you that is not your fault. Have there been any big changes in his work or any other area?

I don't understand his remark about it being too late. It is never too late to work on ones marriage.

Really the answer is to keep honour his marriage commitment and keep loving you but I know he is not listening to me. Right feelings will follow right actions.

I would keep your eyes and ears open to find out what is happening and let us know.

Raymond