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Re: just found out husband is having an affair need help
Coolricrumble
Sorry to hear things aren't working out for you.
OMO the two of you staying together and being unhappy will affect the girls more than if you seperated. Children are so much smarter than we give them credit for, they will pick up on your unhappiness, which may have a negative effect on their behaviour and school work.
I don't think the way things are at the moment are good for any of you.
Have you tried seeing a councillor or relationship advisor?
At the end of the day you have to make the decision to leave or stay.
I feel you've already made that decision in your heart. You've tried to make the marriage work and it hasn't for one reason or another. No shame it letting it go, you've given it your best.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxHugs and love JBxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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