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Originally Posted by chosen
I think you need to make it clear that there should be no contact either by text or facebook or email.
The trouble with you still being together is that she may think that she can just carry on the same way again with no consequenses and no results.
WHy cant you set a clear boundary in this and say that unless she wants to loose you and the girls she has to stop any unfaithfullness and lying?
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Yes but how do I do it now that she has started the divorce (although it looks like she cannot get the money to pursue it) and without starting a big fight again?, What do I do as a boundary if she says no? what do I say I specifically will or will not do?