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Old 6th January 2013, 07:44 PM   #2
snowmike
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Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

I should add that her 87 year old mother is in hospital at the moment and may pass away at any time. She is visiting every afternoon and evening, so she is having a very tough time. I didn't pick this timing, or the situation I/we find ourselves in.

I told her a week ago that if she didn't make more effort to try and make things better then I felt I couldn't continue to push water up hill and it would be best if we call it a day. Yesterday morning we talked again and she basically said if I wanted to call it a day, then so be it. Yet again I eventually relented and said that I would try to back off to give her some space.

The hurt and pain I feel are almost unbearable at times - this is so damn hard.......
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