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Old 12th October 2016, 06:55 AM   #866
Hilary
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Re: Husband doesn't want sex

If one partner would like to partake in sex and the other doesn't then there needs to be some communication to find out why - is it physical, or have they drifted apart and have no interest in you any longer? Or is it that they need a different type of emotional connection with you first? My husband has lost interest. He used to want it twice a day for the first 30 years of marriage but usually only got it 4-6 times a week. Then he dropped to twice a week. Now over the last 8 years he doesn't seem to need it any more, though we make the effort as making love is part of the glue that holds our relationship together, so its more like once a month now. Personally I think it is due to testosterone levels dropping as its associated with muscle wasting. It is up to me to encourage the use of what testosterone he has! - both from a relationship perspective, and because men who have sex twice a week have much less chance of prostate cancer!
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