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ronnoco · 24th January 2014, 12:14 PM

Hi,

I don't think long term you could build a new life and support him but it's probably way to early doors to contemplate this.

If you were married, you strike me as someone who would be sticking to your vows of "for better or worse, in sickness in health" so I think you need to carry on as you are.

I do realise just how hard this must be for you, in limbo and feeling robbed effectively of the life you had but perhaps you need to think of it as a storm which you need to ride out. Ride out the storm, doing damage control along the way. When the storm is over, you will need to rebuild - with or without him.

Looking after no1 is so important.

Have a read of this thread : -

http://www.2-in-2-1.co.uk/forums/showthread.php?t=8756

It's not the same circumstances but you will see similarities that may help you.

24th January 2014, 12:14 PM	#4
ronnoco Registered User Join Date: Aug 2013 Posts: 391	Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down Hi, I don't think long term you could build a new life and support him but it's probably way to early doors to contemplate this. If you were married, you strike me as someone who would be sticking to your vows of "for better or worse, in sickness in health" so I think you need to carry on as you are. I do realise just how hard this must be for you, in limbo and feeling robbed effectively of the life you had but perhaps you need to think of it as a storm which you need to ride out. Ride out the storm, doing damage control along the way. When the storm is over, you will need to rebuild - with or without him. Looking after no1 is so important. Have a read of this thread : - http://www.2-in-2-1.co.uk/forums/showthread.php?t=8756 It's not the same circumstances but you will see similarities that may help you.