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Old 25th November 2010, 03:43 PM   #36
birdit
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Re: husband asked me to move out

Hello Chosen
He wouldnt' give an answer re the 6-8 week thing in front of the counsellor and said he needed to "sleep on it". Said he'd call today. I just emailed asking if we are going to speak and he didn't respond yet. Re the tension - there wasn't tension but he said I'd got quite picky with him - I said this is because I was feel anxious about the relationship and stuff and felt he was being disrespectful (ie he'd come home at 5am and not warn me etc) - he said he didn't care to let me know because I'd disrespected him. So it's a vicious circle.
He says he got to a point where he no longer enjoyed socialising with me, so feels a lot calmer that he is going out on his own without me. This I can understand but he just doesn't seem to think there is any point in addressing my issues and seeing where we get to. He's given up on me frankly. He's not even interested to hear I'm cutting out the booze. He said my behaviour was arrogant and not that which you would expect from someone who professes to love you (ie screaming abuse at him in front of his friends and family). I think that, even if he did agree to the 6-8 week thing, that he'd end up resenting me for having pushed him into it.
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