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Old 21st March 2013, 05:24 AM   #19
Forever
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Re: I feel betrayed!

So why dont you go ahead and take her to Canada with you, and spare all the drama and danger for everyone else back in India? You cannot hold yourself responsible if she then leaves you and turns around and gets support from the government...that will be her decision and on her own head...she could just as easily try to be a good loving wife too if she wanted to.

What you are saying is that you know it is her intention to use you to get to Canada...so let her do so...and let her suffer the consequences for hatching this plan. If her health goes badly whilst in that climate, that is her fault for playing this game with your life.

I know you do not like the idea of being manipulated like this...but too many others will suffer needlessly if you divorce and leave w/o her...and you will suffer needlessly if you stay there too.

So take her to Canada and let her do what she will...but w/o your further help if she does not want to try to be a good wife to you.

Does she plan to divorce YOU after she gets to Canada?? One could only hope she does if she does not want to love you...at least that way, no one in India can fault you or go after your family.
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