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Forum: Marriage Help 2nd December 2015, 10:12 AM
Replies: 790
Views: 391,073
Posted By melly997
Re: Oh no...oh no...

Hello all,
Been a while since I was here.
Well it hasn't gotten any better for me, in fact only a few days after he got his things I found out he was seeing someone else & had started texting her...
Forum: Marriage Help 4th October 2015, 11:21 AM
Replies: 790
Views: 391,073
Posted By melly997
Re: Oh no...oh no...

While all his things were here there was still a chance we could reconnect ( at least in my mind).
I sent him a text 2 weeks ago & he replied with a text saying he appreciated the words &...
Forum: Marriage Help 4th October 2015, 11:04 AM
Replies: 790
Views: 391,073
Posted By melly997
Re: Oh no...oh no...

Thanks Ralf. I live in Australia
Forum: Marriage Help 4th October 2015, 06:46 AM
Replies: 790
Views: 391,073
Posted By melly997
Re: Oh no...oh no...

He's just come & picked up everything he owns. When I asked him if it was definitely over he said yes. I asked him to talk to me but he said its too late for that he's happier & better on his own. I...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd September 2015, 05:52 AM
Replies: 56
Views: 50,866
Posted By melly997
Re: One year on the sadness and the stress.

Ralf, do you have a pet?

Maybe get one as it will give you something that needs your affection & attention & will remove some of the emptiness/loneliness in the house.

Just a thought as they ...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd September 2015, 05:09 AM
Replies: 790
Views: 391,073
Posted By melly997
Re: Oh no...oh no...

LDT, your third paragraph fits my circumstances too.
But in 2 years time are you going to feel differently? Are you going to wish you could go back in time & change things, do it differently ? Is...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd September 2015, 04:35 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 66,698
Posted By melly997
Re: Courage to leave my 11 year marriage

Hi MSJ, I don't care how much your husband says sorry or that he'll change or that you don't feel scared - it's time TO GO. All too often we hear horrible stories of spousal abuse that escalates to...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd September 2015, 03:43 AM
Replies: 790
Views: 391,073
Posted By melly997
Smile Re: Oh no...oh no...

LDT as you are aware I know all too well what you're going through (like everyone else here) but if you're only dragging your feet because you want to make it harder on him - who are you really...
Forum: Marriage Help 17th September 2015, 09:26 AM
Replies: 790
Views: 391,073
Posted By melly997
Re: Oh no...oh no...

Ralf, it's not about being brave, it's about being happy. I have had other relationships (not marriages, this was my first) that ended & even after grieving for months & months the outcome has been...
Forum: Marriage Help 17th September 2015, 08:50 AM
Replies: 790
Views: 391,073
Posted By melly997
Smile Re: Oh no...oh no...

It's two months to the day since I got that cowardly text.
You will all be happy to know that I sent him an email. Not so much as saying how I felt but I apologised for my part in the breakdown &...
Forum: Marriage Help 14th September 2015, 04:11 AM
Replies: 790
Views: 391,073
Posted By melly997
Re: Oh no...oh no...

Hi Chosen & LDT, I don't know where he is so writing a letter wouldn't achieve anything as I've nowhere to post it. Text is out of the question & I'm pretty sure he'd only delete an email. Plus he...
Forum: Marriage Help 12th September 2015, 12:41 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 16,178
Posted By melly997
Re: Resentment

JJeanne here's an alternate spin on things. If your husband isn't pulling his weight at home then why are you picking up the slack? Maybe don't do the dishes & let them pile up for a few days, leave...
Forum: Coffee Shop Chat 12th September 2015, 11:36 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 13,781
Posted By melly997
Re: she's pregnant for him

Just remember that the child is innocent in all this. You need to decide whether you are going to love this child as your own or not & then follow through with this commitment. Do not resent or blame...
Forum: Marriage Help 12th September 2015, 11:26 AM
Replies: 790
Views: 391,073
Posted By melly997
Re: Oh no...oh no...

Thanks for the support Ralf. He's 46. The day after his birthday is when our lovely old friend (& the one person he took advice from & would confide in) passed away.
When I let him go to stay with...
Forum: Marriage Help 12th September 2015, 04:56 AM
Replies: 790
Views: 391,073
Posted By melly997
Re: Oh no...oh no...

Chosen, he's ex-military & he told me that his wife got tired of the moving & his absence & left. I don't know if that's true or not because he has a habit of not putting himself in a bad light. For...
Forum: Marriage Help 11th September 2015, 12:49 AM
Replies: 790
Views: 391,073
Posted By melly997
Re: Oh no...oh no...

It's 8 weeks today & I haven't heard from him or seen him. I have sent a couple of texts but no reply.He hasn't collected his things & he's still paying a couple of bills. Don't think this means...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th September 2015, 04:30 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 25,319
Posted By melly997
Re: Why saving marriage" isn't a priority?

Sadly marriage has just become another 'victim' of today's disposable society. Marriage needs to be worked at, needs discipline, needs a long term commitment - all skills that we no longer value,...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th September 2015, 03:19 AM
Replies: 790
Views: 391,073
Posted By melly997
Smile Re: Oh no...oh no...

I am so sorry. My husband did a similar thing in July but it was by text and, like you, I can think of nothing more cowardly. Five years of marriage ended so quickly, coldly , with no effort & the...
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