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Forum: Marriage Help 6th February 2013, 09:15 PM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,219
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

I had a few problems the other day with this site Raymond. Have you tried using a different browser?
Forum: Marriage Help 5th February 2013, 04:06 PM
Replies: 299
Views: 98,326
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Please Help Me...

Sorry for barging into your thread intact, but I too would like some clarification on this. My husband hasn't filed for divorce but now I worry he might. The only grounds he can use as far as I can...
Forum: Marriage Help 1st February 2013, 08:27 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 15,441
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: I'm living an awful lie...

Sadly not really Raymond, no. I said ''we'' for ease in that we are both baptised members of the RC church and it does have implications on our marriage.
Forum: Marriage Help 31st January 2013, 08:57 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 15,441
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: I'm living an awful lie...

Just another thought. We belong to the RC Church and changing Churches isn't an option, especially for my husband.
I saw a priest last Summer and his attitude and advice was also appalling. Not in...
Forum: Marriage Help 30th January 2013, 11:39 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 15,441
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: I'm living an awful lie...

I will say very little. However, it seems to me you have been drawn to OM because things were missing in your marriage. Your husband is trying to put it right and at the same time you are losing the...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th January 2013, 11:44 PM
Replies: 299
Views: 98,326
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Please Help Me...

Well, see what she has to say tomorrow, things may become clearer then.

A time apart could change things for her too, but I can tell you from my own experience that living in hope is much more...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th January 2013, 11:30 PM
Replies: 299
Views: 98,326
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Please Help Me...

Oh Intact I am so so sorry.

I know how you must be feeling. My husband walked out on me two months ago with a similar story. The pain is immense, each day is agonizing. I live in hope he will...
Forum: Marriage Help 12th January 2013, 12:34 PM
Replies: 437
Views: 143,216
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Advice and support needed please.

Oh I know I will need healing Raymond. This has been with me every minute of every day for five months now. Not since I discovered the adultery, or since he left, but since I realized the marriage...
Forum: Marriage Help 11th January 2013, 10:18 PM
Replies: 437
Views: 143,216
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Advice and support needed please.

Thank you Raymond.

Yes, my sons know I am now 'leaving him to it.' Nothing can happen now until he leaves her.

I know I have to concentrate on pulling myself out of this and looking at ways I...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th January 2013, 03:13 PM
Replies: 437
Views: 143,216
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Advice and support needed please.

Thank you Raymond, I know you are right, but I am still very churned up at the moment. I do know though that I have to be strong.

I had a minor opportunity to show this yesterday. My eldest son...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th January 2013, 08:46 PM
Replies: 437
Views: 143,216
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Advice and support needed please.

I know Raymond. Sadly it seems the words I was given either meant nothing, he's just trying to keep his options open, or at best he meant them at the time but most of the time he doesn't.

I wasn't...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th January 2013, 11:30 AM
Replies: 437
Views: 143,216
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Advice and support needed please.

I was thinking Raymond that perhaps I do need to tell him. The olive branch has been there long enough, it was there for him yesterday too if he wished to take it, but he didn't.

If I say nothing...
Forum: Marriage Help 7th January 2013, 11:18 PM
Replies: 437
Views: 143,216
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Advice and support needed please.

Thank you both. I'll admit I still don't know what to think, whether he really is on the verge of a nervous breakdown, whether he really is mixed up and doesn't know how he feels...but whatever the...
Forum: Marriage Help 7th January 2013, 06:26 PM
Replies: 437
Views: 143,216
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Advice and support needed please.

So I've been quiet for a while. Nothing to report really. I've still been in the same amount of pain and inner turmoil...and waiting.

I'm still waiting.......

Today I finally met up with him....
Forum: Marriage Help 7th January 2013, 01:01 PM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,219
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

Can I just ask Mike what situation the other man is in..is he married, divorced, separated?

Sorry, I can't offer much help but did wonder if his availability could play a part in whether she stays...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd January 2013, 09:53 PM
Replies: 299
Views: 98,326
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Please Help Me...

I don't know if this is any help to you at all, but I was (still am to a great extent) in a similar situation.
My husband told me he didn't love me any more several months ago. Wouldn't allow me...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd January 2013, 03:09 PM
Replies: 437
Views: 143,216
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Advice and support needed please.

Thank you Raymond.

Perhaps punished was the wrong word, but I do believe he is suffering. Now with the realization of what he has done, the pain he has caused and the need perhaps to do it all...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd January 2013, 01:18 PM
Replies: 437
Views: 143,216
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Advice and support needed please.

I really do feel I can forgive him completely Raymond. The anguish and pain I felt when he left and then later when I realized what he had done, has now all gone. (There have been no more denials...
Forum: Marriage Help 1st January 2013, 11:54 PM
Replies: 437
Views: 143,216
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Advice and support needed please.

Thank you Raymond. It has been a bit of a roller coaster and of course it isn't over yet.
Yes, the parable of the prodigal son...with my youngest taking the place of the brother feeling I shouldn't...
Forum: Marriage Help 31st December 2012, 03:18 PM
Replies: 437
Views: 143,216
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Advice and support needed please.

Thank you, I do see your point but I'm just not yet ready to throw away a lifetime over one mistake, one that he is paying dearly for at the moment in many ways.
I really do not know exactly what...
Forum: Marriage Help 30th December 2012, 10:56 PM
Replies: 437
Views: 143,216
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Advice and support needed please.

No, I won't. :)
If he comes back to me because he's decided it's me he wants not her, it really won't matter too much anymore.
Forum: Marriage Help 30th December 2012, 10:44 PM
Replies: 437
Views: 143,216
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Advice and support needed please.

No. If he comes home to me..because he wants to...I'm convinced he will have learned his lesson and will never be tempted to stray again. Ha! His age is a little against him on this too..but this has...
Forum: Marriage Help 30th December 2012, 10:33 PM
Replies: 437
Views: 143,216
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Advice and support needed please.

I didn't actually put it in my post but I think he said. "at least" 2 more weeks. Time to get the prayer mat out again and hope it can be expedited.

Yes, real hope this time. I did think from his...
Forum: Marriage Help 30th December 2012, 09:40 PM
Replies: 437
Views: 143,216
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Advice and support needed please.

Oh I know Helen, Thank you.

The way I am looking at it though is this. Our marriage was not what I thought it was for a long time..on the surface, apart from the last 4 months, everything was...
Forum: Marriage Help 30th December 2012, 07:49 PM
Replies: 437
Views: 143,216
Posted By WishfulThinking
Re: Advice and support needed please.

After reading your earlier posts I rang him...wanting to ask him for a few straight answers. Of course, no answer. I then went out to Mass & on my return, there was a message, saying he was returning...
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