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Forum: Marriage Help 3rd March 2013, 10:06 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

Thank you
No there is no one my boy is 18 and my girl is 21 she lives away from home its just my little girl who needs constant care
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd March 2013, 09:54 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

he has to come back i need my car to get kids to school, would it be bad if i wrote him a letter to read instead of saying what i need to?
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd March 2013, 09:42 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

I will not speak with him now untill tomorrow
I would not be a person to punnish him for what he has done, if he has a concience he will punnish himself enough
I dont know if you can truly forgive...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd March 2013, 09:31 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

I think it did
I also think no sleep or food isnt helping i just cant do anything
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd March 2013, 09:18 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

I am sorry but i just cant do this
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd March 2013, 08:26 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

I have endured a lot in my life and always been strong and positive
But i cant do this the pain is unbearable
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd March 2013, 08:15 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

He told her he was seperated.
He said he is going to call her tomorrow when he gets home in front of me then destroy the sim.
He also said he will never stay away with work again no matter how far...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd March 2013, 08:02 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

Have just spoken with husband
Said he would do whatever it takes to stay here and that we can get through this
I cannot answer him right now
Thank you all for being here for me
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd March 2013, 07:42 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

she has apparenly known him for a year, they met online with a thing called tagged.
I found out because his car broke down so i let him take mine so he could still go to work as he moved his work...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd March 2013, 12:41 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

Thank you.
I have not slept, eaten, or told anyone.
I have not seen him yet he will be home tomorrow morning.
Needless to say i feel devestated and that i do not know what way to turn.
Its not my...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd March 2013, 11:11 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

Good Evening everyone.
Just a quick update, found out today that my husband HAS been having a affair.
Have just spent the entire evening talking to the lady involved.
Melissa x
Forum: Marriage Help 25th February 2013, 08:58 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 4,540
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Lossing mind blood boiling

I know everyone has prob already said this and its hard to believe at the point where you are right now but it does get a little better every day that passes.
I know you are eating sleeping and...
Forum: Marriage Help 24th February 2013, 07:10 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 4,540
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Lossing mind blood boiling

Hey,
I cannot say that i know how you feel because i dont, but i do know what the pain of loving someone and not getting it returned feels like.
I dont know that i am the best person to talk to...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd February 2013, 12:58 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

I cannot thank you enough for your kindness & advice
I am not only smiling on the outside but also in my heart that now i see a glimmer of hope.

I will be certain to let you know how things are...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd February 2013, 09:44 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

Raymond you are so right.
For the first time in nearly a year on monday we were close again.
My last question will be do you think this is worth saving?
Do you think i can turn around the i dont...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd February 2013, 10:00 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

Also forgot to say and not sure if it contributes to his behaviour or not but 3 months before he started doing what he was i had to undergo a radical hysterectomy.
It was either have the operation...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd February 2013, 08:49 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

Yes sorry Raymond i should explain better.
When he was doing what he was he would never bring his laptop indoors when he got home from work he always used to keep his phone on him and on silent.
...
Forum: Prayers needed 22nd February 2013, 08:09 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 17,423
Posted By melissaellen
For All

My prayers are for everyone to be healthy and happy, for my husband to find what he is seeking, for my children to stay safe.
For anyone who needs them, my thoughts & prayers go out to you.
Melissa...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd February 2013, 07:44 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

Yes he was married before it lasted 12 yrs untill he came home early from work one day and caught her in bed with his best friend he found out it had been going on for over a year.
He gave up his...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd February 2013, 06:46 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

Thank you Raymond & Chosen,
I feel much better now i have spoken,i am quite sure he hasnt met anyone but then i was sure he would never hurt me.
Since i found out he has been bringing his laptop...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd February 2013, 03:58 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

yes we are married its our anniversary on wednesday
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd February 2013, 10:56 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Re: Desperate for advice

Thank you,
The sites that he used were not hook up sites but thats only the ones i meknow about.
When it came out he said he done it as a diversion a release from reality of life, he works away...
Forum: Marriage Help 21st February 2013, 11:55 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 18,138
Posted By melissaellen
Desperate for advice

Hello to everyone who is kind enough to be reading this.
I have to admit i am desperate for advice.
My story is very long so here is the basics.
I was married for 15yrs and have 3 children,...
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