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Forum: Marriage Help 12th September 2015, 09:38 AM
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

OF course there is no 100% guarantee, there never is when it comes to having
a baby.
Have you considered adoption?
Forum: Marriage Help 11th September 2015, 06:43 PM
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

Once you find out definitely about the eggs, you will be able to make a decision. Yes its not nice for her at all, but at least you both now know the probably reason for the miscarriages is probably...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th September 2015, 08:59 PM
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

OK so it maybe that the foetus's were not forming properly due to poor or damaged eggs, and thats why the abortions happened. Apparently that's why most abortions do happen in the first 3 months....
Forum: Marriage Help 26th August 2015, 08:20 PM
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

She may feel a little better if she knows what is causing it. The not knowing must be worse.
Forum: Marriage Help 21st August 2015, 11:56 AM
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

I believe that sometimes the sperm can be damaged as can the eggs.
Forum: Marriage Help 20th August 2015, 08:20 PM
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

That may be the next step. It may not be that her body is doing something that miscarries a healthy baby, but it may be that the baby is damaged in some way and not compatable with life therefore it...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th August 2015, 04:53 PM
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

Misconceptions about miscarriage
An increased risk of miscarriage is not linked to:
a mother's emotional state during pregnancy, such as being stressed or depressed
having a shock or fright during...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th August 2015, 04:50 PM
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Views: 292,646
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

The things is that if its something she can do to help prevent it the next time then its surely worth finding out? I am not sure that most miscarriages are caused by the things you mentioned such as...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th August 2015, 02:41 PM
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

Goodness Raymond I never heard of that as a reason for a miscarriage! When expecting my first, I had a very long journey to work consisting of a 20 mins walk to the station, followed by a train...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th August 2015, 10:34 PM
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

I find it strange that after all those miscarriages she doesnt want to find out the cause and if something can be done to help prevent it in the future.
Forum: Marriage Help 19th August 2015, 06:52 PM
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

I think it would be advisable not to try again till she has had more tests to see if there is something that can be done to prevent it.
Forum: Marriage Help 19th August 2015, 06:32 PM
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Views: 292,646
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

I guess that those things are pretty normal after several lost babies, but I am pretty sure that the dads suffer grief as well, after all they were your children too. Its sad that she wont seek grief...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th August 2015, 05:37 PM
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

when you say she talks about the miscarriages, what does she say?
Forum: Marriage Help 19th August 2015, 04:22 PM
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

How about the try the 'wooden spoon' thing. Thats is where one of you holds the spoon and while they are holding it the other must not talk but listen, and then when they are finished, they hand the...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th August 2015, 02:16 PM
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

yes it much be very hard, for both of them, but not sure why this means that she cant at least make a little effort for her husband and her marriage, or get some help for her situation.
Forum: Marriage Help 18th August 2015, 10:26 PM
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Views: 292,646
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

She must know that all isnt well, either with her, you or the marriage, but I guess she would rather leave things in a bad way than do anything about it.
Forum: Marriage Help 18th August 2015, 09:54 PM
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Views: 292,646
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

so sit down and write that letter and give her a day or two to read it and take it in. She seems to be burying her head in the sand hoping it will all go away, but it wont. You both need to make the...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th August 2015, 09:46 PM
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Views: 292,646
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

which is why she needs to know the sheer desperation and unhappiness that you feel, and also that she is seriously damaging the relationship between you.
Forum: Marriage Help 18th August 2015, 09:45 PM
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

well ralf I can understand that at this time she doesnt want more pregnancies, so no unprotected sex, but there are many ways they can get round that, and thats why her complete refusal to even...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th August 2015, 09:36 PM
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Views: 292,646
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

Dont mention leaving at all, but just that you are deeply unhappy and frustrated, and that this cannot go on the same way. That you both clearly need outside help to get out of this rut because...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th August 2015, 09:34 PM
Replies: 226
Views: 292,646
Posted By chosen
Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

Ralf I think that she is afraid of more miscarriages, but has taken it to such extremes that she is seriously damaging the marriage. To say that you wont even have sexual contact with no actually...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th August 2015, 09:30 PM
Replies: 226
Views: 292,646
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

so write the letter and be completely honest no holds barred. Share your feelings and frustrations and unhappiness. Please just do it, she needs to know or she may never make that effort she needs...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th August 2015, 09:24 PM
Replies: 226
Views: 292,646
Posted By chosen
Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

Thats because she doesnt want any sexual contact with or without full intercourse, but she needs to know that you are her husband and compromises need to be reached and that the marriage is at...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th August 2015, 09:21 PM
Replies: 226
Views: 292,646
Posted By chosen
Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

why havent you told her how unhappy you are and how desperate you are? She wont know unless you tell her, you have to be honest and open with her about all of this. it seems that she says something...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th August 2015, 09:18 PM
Replies: 226
Views: 292,646
Posted By chosen
Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

Again completely untrue. Have you even thought that its your attitude that is unfriendly and rude, and therefore causes others to react with shock and surprise?
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