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Forum: Marriage Help 6th December 2023, 09:08 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 55,862
Posted By chris1729
Re: A future after wife's affair?

An update.

13 years have passed since the affair. I'm still married, I still love my wife. However, I feel my marriage is like a millstone around my neck. I was misguided when I chose not to...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd September 2016, 04:28 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 23,383
Posted By chris1729
Re: Concern over husband's behavior during engagement party. Where next?

I realise you're in the US, where access to doctors is different to the UK, but I'd encourage him to go to see a doctor as soon as possible. To my untrained mind, his behaviour is indicative of some...
Forum: Marriage Help 31st August 2016, 06:07 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 55,862
Posted By chris1729
Re: A future after wife's affair?

Here I am, six years after the affair.

As the summer holidays approached, the affair came back to mind strongly, for some reason. It was more the implications of the affair, than the affair...
Forum: Helpful Tips 17th June 2012, 01:54 AM
Replies: 68
Views: 154,670
Posted By chris1729
Re: Make love to your wife or masturbate ??? my husband prefers the later choice

1aokgal: great answer, well expressed, clearly coming from years of experience and from a very mature lady.

I would say, though, that a *small* amount of masturbation within marriage is OK. It...
Forum: Marriage Help 17th June 2012, 01:29 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 11,308
Posted By chris1729
Re: Needing advice Re Sexless Marriage

Bunyip, I don't have a good answer for you. About six years ago, however, I was in a similar (though less extreme) situation and I, too, was considering ways of lowering my libido.

Now I think,...
Forum: Marriage and society 17th June 2012, 01:22 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 52,296
Posted By chris1729
Re: How does gay marriage harm society?

Gay marriage does not hurt society.

I'll tell you what does hurt society: people who are quick to judge others and slow to look carefully at themselves.
Forum: Marriage Help 5th June 2011, 08:39 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 55,862
Posted By chris1729
Re: A future after wife's affair?

I tried to talk to my wife about how we're feeling at the moment and it was a total brick wall, so it looks like my only option is to live with the past affair and put it behind us. That's not the...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd June 2011, 10:27 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 55,862
Posted By chris1729
Re: A future after wife's affair?

Well, I can't possibly think she had no control over herself. I think she may also have had some misguided ideas that an affair can actually help a marriage. Well, it certainly hasn't helped ours.
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd June 2011, 03:55 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 55,862
Posted By chris1729
Re: A future after wife's affair?

I'll tell you what, it's been quite interesting re-reading this thread, particularly the posts written last August when my wife was unable or unwilling to discuss the affair at all.

We had some...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd June 2011, 02:58 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 55,862
Posted By chris1729
Re: A future after wife's affair?

Well, here we are more or less one year on.

I've been dwelling on the affair for the past few weeks, mainly because it's almost the anniversary of when I found out about it (the second time) and...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th September 2010, 11:53 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 55,862
Posted By chris1729
Re: A future after wife's affair?

Mischief has been happening at our house.

An egg thrown at the window, some plants destroyed then, on Friday, sattelite cables cut and two tyres punctured which will cost us a couple of hundred at...
Forum: Marriage Help 29th August 2010, 01:22 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 55,862
Posted By chris1729
Re: A future after wife's affair?

My wife is currently coming up with lots of reasons why she's dissatisfied with our marriage at present. I told her it sounded like these are the reasons she had the affair in the first place. She...
Forum: Marriage Help 24th August 2010, 10:55 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 55,862
Posted By chris1729
Re: A future after wife's affair?

My wife and I are now hardly speaking. She's saying she can't bear the tension and can't cope. Also, she hates her job at present and just wants to run away.

I have to keep reminding myself that...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd August 2010, 03:25 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 55,862
Posted By chris1729
Re: A future after wife's affair?

Here's an update-

We took the Relate counsellor's advice and went on holiday as planned, leaving our emotional baggage at home.

A few days after the holiday, I said to my wife that we needed to...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th July 2010, 09:20 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 55,862
Posted By chris1729
Re: A future after wife's affair?

I'm finding some of this advice very useful.

I think these are the problems I face:

I either divorce my wife or:


accept the affair, which I'm having great difficulty doing
accept I may...
Forum: Marriage Help 15th July 2010, 02:21 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 55,862
Posted By chris1729
Re: A future after wife's affair?

What I want to hear from someone is, "If you love her, forgive her."
Forum: Marriage Help 14th July 2010, 03:25 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 55,862
Posted By chris1729
Re: A future after wife's affair?

Thank you, Wiggle. I know I need to find answers myself but I'm in shock and need some help. Getting others' perspective may be useful to me.
Forum: Marriage Help 14th July 2010, 02:34 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 55,862
Posted By chris1729
A future after wife's affair?

My wife and I have been married for nearly 8 years. She's 44 and I'm 43. We love each other very much.

Last October, my wife started an affair with a workmate. I suspected absolutely nothing...
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