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Forum: Marriage Help 16th March 2015, 10:25 PM
Replies: 105
Views: 43,221
Posted By N654563
Re: My wife of 16 years wants us to split

You're so funny NDY, haven't you realised yet that it is you who we all look upto as our leader and the oracle here! Thanks for your support, like I said its early days but steps in the right...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th March 2015, 10:19 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 7,634
Posted By N654563
Re: scared

It sounds like a desperately sad situation but by the sound of it you want to love him and want to find him attractive so that is positive. Keep talking to your councellor and each other. Have you...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th March 2015, 08:48 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 18,350
Posted By N654563
Re: Right or wrong ?

Just take it one day at a time and stop worrying.
Forum: Marriage Help 16th March 2015, 08:46 PM
Replies: 121
Views: 59,902
Posted By N654563
Re: Is it normal to feel so down ?

I'm good Ralf thank you and yes, good news which i have just posted on my thread. Early days but much more positive.
Forum: Marriage Help 16th March 2015, 08:44 PM
Replies: 105
Views: 43,221
Posted By N654563
Re: My wife of 16 years wants us to split

Hi all, well I have a bit of a positive update for you all. My OH has told me that she knows it would be wrong for her to end it and she wants us to try again. She said that she knew that she would...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th March 2015, 08:19 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 18,350
Posted By N654563
Re: Right or wrong ?

That's great Ralf. Enjoy the time you spend together and take comfort from each other. Talking to someone in a similar situation will help you enormously.
Forum: Marriage Help 16th March 2015, 08:16 PM
Replies: 121
Views: 59,902
Posted By N654563
Re: Is it normal to feel so down ?

Hey Ralf, I'm just catching up on things and I'm still thinking of you buddy and sending positive energy to you. Keep working at it one day at a time and try and be positive. You have got lots to...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th March 2015, 08:08 PM
Replies: 1,518
Views: 657,114
Posted By N654563
Re: Yet another " I love you but I'm not in love with you" thread

hmm, that's a strange one. Like you, I would have thought that she would want a fresh start in a new home and not be constantly reminded of your marriage. I can understand her wanting to keep...
Forum: Marriage Help 11th March 2015, 08:49 PM
Replies: 105
Views: 43,221
Posted By N654563
Re: My wife of 16 years wants us to split

Mate, this experience has shown me just how delicate life really is and how things you thought so solid and stable can change so quickly. In some respects I am glad that this has given me a chance...
Forum: Marriage Help 9th March 2015, 08:29 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 6,520
Posted By N654563
Re: Virgin User..

wow, great reply and i can only agree with everything said here.
Forum: Marriage Help 9th March 2015, 08:25 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 18,350
Posted By N654563
Re: Right or wrong ?

Ralf, that is great. Enjoy it for what it is and take comfort in that someone is now there for you as you can be for her.
Forum: Marriage Help 9th March 2015, 08:21 PM
Replies: 105
Views: 43,221
Posted By N654563
Re: My wife of 16 years wants us to split

Thanks, I am learning a lot about myself. Hindsight is a wonderful thing and I just wish that I could have acknowledged and tried to address my shortcomings sooner and avoided all this pain.
Forum: Marriage Help 9th March 2015, 08:02 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 18,350
Posted By N654563
Re: Right or wrong ?

Ralf, as far as I am concerned you are doing absolutely nothing wrong. You will both find it to be a great help and comfort to be able to talk to someone who has faced similar troubles and be...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th March 2015, 09:45 PM
Replies: 1,518
Views: 657,114
Posted By N654563
Re: Yet another " I love you but I'm not in love with you" thread

Wow, it is certainly amazing reading and she makes some great points. Now I'm not sure that my OH has an OM, my guess is not, but I can't be certain but even I can relate to a lot of what she said...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th March 2015, 08:51 PM
Replies: 105
Views: 43,221
Posted By N654563
Re: My wife of 16 years wants us to split

Yep I know that now but sometimes the urge for a little drink was too great to resist!! I'm am learning though and each bad experience will make me wiser and stronger!
Forum: Marriage Help 8th March 2015, 08:48 PM
Replies: 1,518
Views: 657,114
Posted By N654563
Re: Yet another " I love you but I'm not in love with you" thread

I'm not sure on the rules of posting links to other forums but I have definitely seen others post links to web pages. Do it, whats the worst that can happen!!!!
Forum: Marriage Help 8th March 2015, 07:55 PM
Replies: 1,518
Views: 657,114
Posted By N654563
Re: Yet another " I love you but I'm not in love with you" thread

NDY, my understanding is that if she divorces you then you could end up with the legal bill. A friend of mine was divorced by his wife and because she divorced him he had to pay court costs etc even...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th March 2015, 03:57 PM
Replies: 105
Views: 43,221
Posted By N654563
Re: My wife of 16 years wants us to split

Yep I know, I have just got to take my own advice and take it one day at a time and not expect too much. I am definitely staying away from the alcohol as that does not help my feelings. I know we...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th March 2015, 01:34 PM
Replies: 105
Views: 43,221
Posted By N654563
Re: My wife of 16 years wants us to split

An update on my situation is that I had a terrible night. Although my OH is still adamant that we are beyond repair we have had a couple of good days on the talking front. It has been nothing heavy...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th March 2015, 01:06 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 6,520
Posted By N654563
Thumbs up Re: Virgin User..

I completely agree on the alcohol part. I don't drink large quantities or even regularly but I like an odd social drink every now again. But on a couple of occasions over the past two weeks I have...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th March 2015, 12:45 PM
Replies: 1,518
Views: 657,114
Posted By N654563
Re: Yet another " I love you but I'm not in love with you" thread

That will rile her for sure. I don't know how you manage to stay so calm and collected and walk away in such difficult circumstances!
Forum: Marriage Help 8th March 2015, 12:37 PM
Replies: 105
Views: 43,221
Posted By N654563
Re: My wife of 16 years wants us to split

Tell me about it, but I think if I say that to her it will be fireworks! She is obviously going to want to get out and socialise now and although it will be hard for me I get it. But she has to...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th March 2015, 12:25 PM
Replies: 121
Views: 59,902
Posted By N654563
Re: Is it normal to feel so down ?

I know how you feel. The thought of moving house or area and not having all the things that you are familiar and comfortable with terrifies me. Although I can understand how it could help with the...
Forum: Marriage Help 7th March 2015, 09:39 PM
Replies: 105
Views: 43,221
Posted By N654563
Re: My wife of 16 years wants us to split

Hmm, I think that this will be the case for my OH too because I really didn't stop her doing anything that she wanted to do. I am a bit worried that she will overly rely on our 16 daughter to baby...
Forum: Marriage Help 7th March 2015, 03:54 PM
Replies: 105
Views: 43,221
Posted By N654563
Re: My wife of 16 years wants us to split

I know, it makes perfect sense to me that we were getting to a point where I could have focussed more on her and our marriage but alas it appears that I am too late....heart breaking!
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