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Forum: Christian Marriage 21st December 2012, 05:19 PM
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Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

I would do this:

Tell your wife that you and she are living as room mates rather than as a married couple according to Scripture. Tell her that when the youngest turns 18 that your "job" is...
Forum: Christian Marriage 16th December 2012, 09:06 PM
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Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

Well, if he stands up to her and threatens to move out...that is still HIS decision to do so...she will likely tell him to go ahead with it then.

I would recommend staying for the children,...
Forum: Christian Marriage 16th December 2012, 08:13 PM
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Views: 246,108
Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

What about his 14 and 11 year old children?
Forum: Christian Marriage 16th December 2012, 06:21 PM
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Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

What would a "stand" look like?

He is already sleeping separately in his own room, mbing, doing w/o sex, serving the family w/o anyone serving him...so what could he possibly do that would get...
Forum: Christian Marriage 15th December 2012, 10:24 PM
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Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

And if she refuses counseling???
Forum: Christian Marriage 15th December 2012, 08:44 PM
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Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

Well Chosen, if you can recall...he had an issue with "accommodations" in marriage last year, thinking that it would be a selfish thing to expect a spouse to do something which they did not want to...
Forum: Christian Marriage 15th December 2012, 05:24 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

I am wondering if when she suggested separate bedrooms because of "temptations", that it was HER who was the one who was being "tempted"? I am thinking this since you have made no advances towards...
Forum: Christian Marriage 15th December 2012, 12:16 AM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

Do you think it is a good idea to have separate bedrooms...especially at the age your children are? Wont that give them an idea that this is "normal" in marriage?

Do you think that perhaps the...
Forum: Christian Marriage 14th December 2012, 09:37 PM
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Views: 246,108
Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

Pardon me George...can you tell me how old your children are now?
Forum: Christian Marriage 21st December 2011, 09:59 AM
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Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

Okay George,

I have been thinking again.:eek:

Let's just say that you are ready for a long over due "awakening"...but your wife will never go "there" on her own accord or by being prompted...
Forum: Christian Marriage 21st December 2011, 03:16 AM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

I seriously think that her reasons given in (#1 & #2) are straight up bovine skitology...designed to evoke irrational fears, rather than to address the fact that people manage to do it all around the...
Forum: Christian Marriage 20th December 2011, 08:25 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

George,

I have been thinking.:eek:

It appears to me that given your wife's upbringing, she probably has been "taught" that having sexual desire is tantamount to "LUSTING"...which is a sin. ...
Forum: Christian Marriage 19th December 2011, 11:49 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

Greetings George,

As far as being "accommodating" when it comes to sexual expression or desires, I would classify it much the same way as I would classify being "accommodating" to my spouse for...
Forum: Christian Marriage 5th September 2011, 09:37 PM
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Views: 246,108
Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

Yes it was pretty good, it amounted to about 1/3 of his income (I had none)...he did well too. There were actually four children I had to take care of at the time, but two of them were older and did...
Forum: Christian Marriage 5th September 2011, 08:25 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

I had a twenty year marriage in California. I was legally "entitled" to spousal support until I remarried or cohabitated... and then half his retirement when he retired. I could have stayed in the...
Forum: Christian Marriage 5th September 2011, 12:25 AM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

Hi Shasha,
I think you did love him, and forgave him over and over and over...I also think that love can erode over time when there are so many things that pile up unresolved in a marriage. I...
Forum: Christian Marriage 3rd September 2011, 09:10 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

Chosen,
The lack of respect is now an ongoing thing between both of them...but it was initiated first by his disrespect for his wife by continually using porn, and then by her since finding out...
Forum: Christian Marriage 3rd September 2011, 08:19 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

Hmmm....
I dont know if this will help you Shasha, but I was married twenty years to a policeman. He was very much like your husband is, including the porn which he had started in his early...
Forum: Christian Marriage 3rd September 2011, 01:19 AM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

Chosen,
I think there is a fine line between "porn" and Art. Art (really good art) is generally not produced with the intent to generate a provocative (obvious sexual) response....the human body...
Forum: Christian Marriage 7th April 2011, 08:55 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Forever
Re: Married and lonely

Hi Shasha,

I was married for twenty years to a man exactly like yours, cop, porn, withdrawn and indifferent, no spiritual convictions, no communication and sex only when he needed the...
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