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Forum: Marriage Help 22nd April 2015, 09:59 PM
Replies: 73
Views: 55,688
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: Don't know how to get through....

You are doing all you can defeated. It is still early days. The best advice I would like to share with you is to try and stop worrying about the time it takes for things to resolve - this is a...
Forum: Marriage Help 13th April 2015, 10:23 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 63,310
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: I want my husband to have sex with other women

I think you are either taking the pi55 or are on the wrong site. Or possibly a bit of both.
Forum: Marriage Help 8th April 2015, 08:40 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 7,147
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: is my partner is cheating

Very hard to say to be honest. There is without a doubt something he is holding back from you and not being 100% truthful about. I would suggest you work on him over the coming days and try to piece...
Forum: Marriage Help 29th March 2015, 03:04 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 18,651
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: A bad few days

Just need to keep on with sticking to my principals and staying away as much as I can . A very testing time at the moment with our son, and my wife is struggling and tbh a nightmare to be around -...
Forum: Marriage Help 28th March 2015, 08:46 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 18,651
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: A bad few days

Who knows....?
They are fairly close so I guess they swap stories as sisters do...
Thing is, there is a chance that the OW just sees me as a nice guy and nothing more? so hard to work all this out.
Forum: Marriage Help 28th March 2015, 06:19 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 18,651
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: A bad few days

Yes it is the OW sister that is organising the party. The invite extends to my wife as well.
Forum: Marriage Help 28th March 2015, 01:31 PM
Replies: 73
Views: 55,688
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: Don't know how to get through....

Don't expect too much too soon. As long as there are signsof life (such as the family meal) there is hope. How much did he honestly have to drink the night before he woke up in a bad mood?
Forum: Marriage Help 28th March 2015, 01:29 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 18,651
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: A bad few days

Hi - not too bad.
My wife is still struggling with things and our son is particularly hard work this week. Under a fair bit of pressure with work also, so just about holding it all together. Just...
Forum: Marriage Help 25th March 2015, 03:57 PM
Replies: 73
Views: 55,688
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: Don't know how to get through....

Glad you had a productive session with the counselling. Keep going, it will get easier - you are at the lowest point and will look back on it being as such whatever way things go. Keep talking to...
Forum: Marriage Help 24th March 2015, 09:26 PM
Replies: 73
Views: 55,688
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: Don't know how to get through....

He sounds so much like me, before I admitted help was needed. Social anxiety is possibly an issue here. Like myself, I am sure he has been successful professionally as he is "in role" . The sad...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd March 2015, 01:06 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 31,037
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: 365 Gratefulls

I am grateful to have the strength to help myself
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd March 2015, 08:16 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 18,651
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: A bad few days

I just feel lonely at times in my marriage. I have tried so so hard at everything for my family and marriage, but I feel unfulfilled. I am getting older, none of us know how long we have got left on...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd March 2015, 05:58 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 18,651
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: A bad few days

It is hard to get away as our son is so demanding. My wife does not trust anyone else.
We moved a few years ago 500 miles away from my family, to live near my wifes family partly to help with our...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd March 2015, 03:32 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 18,651
Posted By sambrooklands
A bad few days

Reading and talking with you all on here, I feel a bit churlish with my problems (although the experiences of the hell I went through last year i hope are of small help to others).

...However I...
Forum: Marriage Help 21st March 2015, 11:57 AM
Replies: 73
Views: 55,688
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: Don't know how to get through....

Don' t think, say, or do anything that is final at this stage - just accept that you are in the heat of the moment and that things will settle down and pass. So much of what you say mirrors my own...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th March 2015, 11:36 AM
Replies: 790
Views: 406,778
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: Oh no...oh no...

Really sorry Lindentree. Any practical advice or support you need, just ask. We will be with you in this. I am not religious, however I do fully agree with NDY that the darkest hour comes before the...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th March 2015, 03:34 PM
Replies: 73
Views: 55,688
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: Don't know how to get through....

I have not been intimate with my wife for longer than that. Frustrating and hurtful as it is for me, I guess there are legitimate reasons why this is the case. I accept these in the hope that things...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th March 2015, 08:46 AM
Replies: 73
Views: 55,688
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: Don't know how to get through....

Defeated.
Counciling on his part is a real breakthrough - do not under estimate the value that this can bring. I know we have touched on this subject before, but to me it looks like you will be...
Forum: Marriage Help 17th March 2015, 06:52 PM
Replies: 105
Views: 42,577
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: My wife of 16 years wants us to split

Fantastic news - I am sooooo pleased for you.
Take it gently, step at a time and do not expect too much too soon. Be realistic also that you will still have set backs along the way - this is all...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th March 2015, 10:25 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 9,288
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: Is my husband being unreasonable

Here is the number ;

0207 4030888

Call them, now.
Forum: Marriage Help 16th March 2015, 10:22 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 9,288
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: Is my husband being unreasonable

Ok Summer - sounds that you are coping well, and you will find out over the coming weeks and months that you will be stronger than you ever thought. You appear to still love your husband very much,...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th March 2015, 07:41 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 9,288
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: Is my husband being unreasonable

Hi Summer.

First of all, I want to say what a strong, loyal, and supportive person you sound.
There are a number of complications here, however it will be possible to sort them. The first thing...
Forum: Marriage Help 14th March 2015, 05:04 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 4,145
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: Annulment or not?

Hi moses

Sorry to hear of your situation. You will certainly find good advice on here. To start with, I think you need to draw a line between your feelings for your wife and feeling for your...
Forum: Marriage Help 13th March 2015, 09:33 PM
Replies: 1,518
Views: 653,078
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: Yet another " I love you but I'm not in love with you" thread

You are doing well NDY.
I am following your thread, and all I can say is keep doing what you are doing.
You are a fine and decent person, and better times will be ahead.
Forum: Marriage Help 13th March 2015, 09:24 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 5,750
Posted By sambrooklands
Re: Religion

Thanks guys - means a lot.

As with all of us, I have had quite a journey in life, and I hope relaying some of my experiences and demons can help others. I just cannot believe in any God, however...
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