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Forum: Marriage Help 15th April 2012, 09:08 PM
Replies: 122
Views: 47,754
Posted By 32hh
Re: Music to mend a broken heart....

I love that this thread is still going! It is a bit of a silly one, but I think it cheered a few of us up when I started it, at a time when we were all needing a bit of silliness and cheer, so I...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd August 2011, 10:42 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 8,168
Posted By 32hh
Re: Marriage Update

Thanks Helen and yoga, and thanks for all your support wen I needed you, it was amazing! I never ever thought we'd be here either. It's beenl tough, but ultimately, so worth it! So glad I didn't...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd August 2011, 11:51 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 12,364
Posted By 32hh
Re: Was short love affair a shake up or something more?

She feels bored and neglected. She wants to feel that PZAZZ you get at the start of a new relationship. She wants to feel like she's 18 again. You need to ask yourself why your wife might feel...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd August 2011, 11:37 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 8,168
Posted By 32hh
Re: Marriage Update

Yoga, that's amazing so happy for you! Actually, my H & me managed to sort things out as well after me throwing him out and thinking it was all over! Just goes to show where there's life (and love)...
Forum: Coffee Shop Chat 23rd August 2010, 11:07 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 6,760
Posted By 32hh
Re: Sacrifice the children for their health?

Are you getting any help for the depression? The lack of energy, desire to sleep etc are all classic symptoms of depression as I'm sure you know. If you're not already taking them, antidepressants...
Forum: Coffee Shop Chat 23rd August 2010, 08:55 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 6,760
Posted By 32hh
Re: Sacrifice the children for their health?

Hey Arcos, sorry to hear it's still going so badly. Don't give up your fight for the kids, she will only twist that as well into "Your dad doesn't love you/want to see you etc" and that will have...
Forum: Marriage Help 11th August 2009, 11:40 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 7,893
Posted By 32hh
Re: Marriage Not Blossoming

PLEASE scrap your fostering idea! I know you mean well, and think it will give a trial run at parent hood, but it doesn't work like that!!! Many fosterers come to it after their children have grown...
Forum: Marriage Help 11th August 2009, 11:27 PM
Replies: 174
Views: 55,918
Posted By 32hh
Re: Her one night stand and now look....!

However, would this love not have ended up the same way as many do? On the rocks? Are we all so naive, so blind to think that the relationship we are about to enter into is going to be perfect? Not...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th August 2009, 10:38 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 23,600
Posted By 32hh
Re: I should be over this by now.

Thanks so much J92. You have had one of the hardest journeys of any of us. How is your sister? I hope so much there is good news there for you and your family soon.

We will be OK. I have...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th August 2009, 10:26 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 5,429
Posted By 32hh
Re: let him stay or kick him out?

Weeeeellll. So far it's a one off. It IS possible he is telling the truth? I think you should at least give him a chance to explain himself. If anything else every happened like that then you...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th August 2009, 10:18 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 3,956
Posted By 32hh
Re: Should I Stay ? ? ?

Well, there is no right or wrong thing to do, I think you already know that. I think before you can make any decisions though you need answers to the questions Raycub has suggested , if you haven't...
Forum: Marriage Help 9th August 2009, 02:43 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 23,600
Posted By 32hh
Re: I should be over this by now.

Things I DON'T miss about H:

WOndering where he is.
Where who he is with.
Worrying what sort of mood he is in/how drunk he is
Being made to feel crap about myself/
Being made to feel like I...
Forum: Marriage Help 9th August 2009, 10:45 AM
Replies: 83
Views: 29,852
Posted By 32hh
Re: counsellor cancelled

That's so fantastic for you JWD! Camping in Scotland, you ARE an optimist!!! Don't forget the Skin-So-Soft for the midgeys! Glad everything is going so well for you. Enjoy your trip and keep us...
Forum: Marriage Help 9th August 2009, 10:40 AM
Replies: 752
Views: 211,421
Posted By 32hh
Re: I can't believe this is happening!

Georgie is so right Raycub. Good riddance. If he is so selfish and weak then you are better off him going now. Would it have been better if he'd stayed till your 15 anniversary, or your 20? You...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th August 2009, 03:29 PM
Replies: 174
Views: 55,918
Posted By 32hh
Re: Her one night stand and now look....!

Befree, you are a nasty and unpleasant person. Please don't take your bitterness out on others on this forum, that is not what it is for. We all welcome a little constructive critisism, but not...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th August 2009, 03:23 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 23,600
Posted By 32hh
Re: I should be over this by now.

What a lovely person YOU are befree. What is your problem? And you are quite frankly making assumptions about things you know nothing about. You claim that your impressions are based on my words,...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th August 2009, 12:58 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 23,600
Posted By 32hh
Re: I should be over this by now.

Thanks Helen and Crush. I wasn't meaning to moan, just to say that I appreciated everyone's kindness, especially at a time when you are going through so much as well! I know this is for the best, I...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th August 2009, 02:05 AM
Replies: 56
Views: 23,600
Posted By 32hh
Re: I should be over this by now.

You're all so kind. I don't feel very strong! I feel like I've taken the easy way out. But I tried as hard as I could as I could to make it work. It took more than I had. I'm almost certain that...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd August 2009, 10:52 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 23,600
Posted By 32hh
Re: I should be over this by now.

Well it's....still OK actually. Sort of. Weird, but OK. But hard too. Financially things are OK at the moment, he has agreed to keep supporting us. He already has a flat where he works and has...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd July 2009, 12:46 AM
Replies: 56
Views: 23,600
Posted By 32hh
Re: I should be over this by now.

Errrmmmmm, I think I just ended my marriage!! Oh god!!! I should be hyperventilating at least but am eerily calm!! I think that was what did it! We were having the same old row- him feeding me...
Forum: Marriage Help 9th July 2009, 10:56 PM
Replies: 752
Views: 211,421
Posted By 32hh
Re: I can't believe this is happening!

Hey Ray,
Well in an ideal world (ie where you behave like him) you say, "sorry darlings Daddy's a money obsessed busy pig whocan't be bothered to make time for you and blames it on me!!!!"
But in...
Forum: Marriage Help 9th July 2009, 11:28 AM
Replies: 752
Views: 211,421
Posted By 32hh
Re: I can't believe this is happening!

Hi Ray,
JWD is right he might be manipulating you because of the talk last week. Don't give in. If you give in this time, then he'll find something else to blackmail you about the kids with. It's...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd July 2009, 09:37 AM
Replies: 56
Views: 23,600
Posted By 32hh
Re: I should be over this by now.

So H will home tomorrow, a fw days sooner than expected. I haven't missed him at all, and to be honest haven't even really wanted to speak to him. Have been avoiding his calls or passing him on to...
Forum: Marriage Help 1st July 2009, 03:21 PM
Replies: 174
Views: 55,918
Posted By 32hh
Re: Her one night stand and now look....!

I think there is an element of the big hole, but you have offered a ladder out several times and she has not wanted to come, to stick with the analogy. My feeling is that at the moment everyone is...
Forum: Marriage Help 1st July 2009, 09:36 AM
Replies: 174
Views: 55,918
Posted By 32hh
Re: Her one night stand and now look....!

I don't know how you can prove her alcoholism, but mention it to your lawyer, he might have some ideas. That she has already abandoned one family should be fairly well documented and I would bring...
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