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Forum: Marriage Help 11th February 2011, 04:12 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out PUtting legal and financial to one side for the moment..... what is now troubling me, especially reading a lot of the other posts on this forum, and other websites, is that apart from my occasional...

Forum: Marriage Help 7th February 2011, 03:47 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out Hi everyone, we agreed a figure at the weekend. Not as much I would probably get by going to court, but I really can't deal with the emotional trauma, and there is always a risk that it would be...

Forum: Marriage Help 4th February 2011, 01:36 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out Yes I do have home rights and have registered these with the land registry.

Forum: Marriage Help 2nd February 2011, 01:58 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out No she's not - she's currently in Oz on an open ended ticket - and hopefully won't come back. Did I mention he lent her MY suitcase to travel with? It seems even on a £4k allowance a month, she...

Forum: Marriage Help 1st February 2011, 04:47 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out Thanks everyone for your advice. The lawyer has advised me to move back in to the marital home, however, so this makes no contact difficult. I am seeing my H tonight to talk about next steps - he...

Forum: Marriage Help 31st January 2011, 03:35 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out I told his sister I had been trying etc but they all indulge him (he is the youngest) and he tells them he gave me chances but in the end lost hope that I would change. No-one seems to be telling...

Forum: Marriage Help 28th January 2011, 01:49 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out I do forgive him - I'd have him back tomorrow despite the affair and the baby. I just hate people thinking I was reckless and destroyed his life which is what they all think. Therefore encouraging...

Forum: Marriage Help 27th January 2011, 04:00 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out You know what I also find upsetting? The fact he says I did nothing to conquer my problems, when in fact I saw a doctor, a counsellor and a hypnotherapist. His sister says this all came too late,...

Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2011, 09:51 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out Thanks everyone. Yes, it feels utterly horrendous, like a stab in the gut. dealing with the marriage ending was bad enough; as was dealing with him finding someone else. But I could convince...

Forum: Marriage Help 21st January 2011, 04:04 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out He says the relationship started beginning Dec. He says he is in love with her. I found her frumpy, cheap knickers in the flat last night when I went to have him cook me dinner. He says she is...

Forum: Marriage Help 15th January 2011, 09:57 AM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out I don't know - I fear like you say that there is more to this than meets they eye. I daren't ask about other women. He emailed me to say he felt very sad and wished it hadn't come to this. Then he...

Forum: Marriage Help 13th January 2011, 06:19 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out Had lunch today - was like old times, laughing and joking. Was great in fact. Only briefly "talked" at the end unfortunately - he asked how I felt about the flat sale issue. Said it had bowled me...

Forum: Marriage Help 12th January 2011, 02:14 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out Hi all, I got some legal advice a while ago but at that time didn't think in a million years he would sell the flat. It has crossed my mind that there could be devious forces at work here, but on...

Forum: Marriage Help 11th January 2011, 03:29 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out hello again. Rest assured that I do not contact H unless he contacts me - I'm conscious to give him space and not appear desperate or needy. I am doing what I can to move on with my life - exploring...

Forum: Marriage Help 7th January 2011, 02:06 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out Hi Raymond, I was right, my optimism was premature. I didn't get a response to my text, and texted again. Only jsut got a response this morning. Basically he said he's been feeling exhausted...

Forum: Marriage Help 6th January 2011, 09:44 AM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out Hi both of you Just to clarify, the reason for saying i'm not free until the weekend was not a game playing tactic, just the truth - the first day i'm free is Saturday. And I agree, this is not the...

Forum: Marriage Help 5th January 2011, 11:20 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out Hi everyone, got a text from H tonight. He has been seeing a neurologist (before we seperated) and turns out he has a problem and he's worried. So he texts me. But then says he's very very sad...

Forum: Marriage Help 4th January 2011, 08:14 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out Thanks Forever, the advice and general support on this forum means a lot and has helped me cope immeasurably.

Forum: Marriage Help 4th January 2011, 10:11 AM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out Thanks Chosen. But it feels so hard to have faith in him right now - why did he not intervene earlier? Why did he not intervene during our pre-marriage classes and stop us getting married?

Forum: Marriage Help 4th January 2011, 09:08 AM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out Thanks Raymond, anything is worth a try!

Forum: Marriage Help 2nd January 2011, 06:09 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out THis is my problem Raymond - preparing for the worst and accepting it's over. I just struggle every day - everything I do reminds me of what I've lost - I despair every minute thinking "what if" and...

Forum: Marriage Help 29th December 2010, 10:25 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out Hello everyone, hope you all had a good Christmas. I found it enormously hard - not being with H for the first time in 10 years (and we met just before Christmas so it always held special memories...

Forum: Marriage Help 24th December 2010, 09:04 AM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out Thanks everyone - I felt I was coping so well until I found out about the possibility of this other woman.... now I just feel physically sick all the time, and have even darker moods. I feel the...

Forum: Marriage Help 23rd December 2010, 11:29 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out Thanks for your prayers - wish he'd been there for us when we needed it before! I guess I'm glad H rang - but you know, he talks about catching up either by phone or in person because I guess he...

Forum: Marriage Help 23rd December 2010, 06:04 PM

Replies: 203 husband asked me to move out Views: 231,387 Posted By birdit Re: husband asked me to move out hello everyone. he did call me earlier like he said, but he was at work and so the call was very brief. he just asked when i was heading home for xmas. i asked him about his xmas party - he said...

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