Should I keep trying?

[Unregistered]

Hello everyone, I need some advice. What should you do when your husband says he is not in love with you anymore and wants to call it quits? I have felt this way before awhile back I have always loved him But I felt as though I was not in love with him. Do couples go through this, would a temp. seperation help. Even if it means him quitting his job and moving 2 hrs away? I am doing things now that I haven't done in a long time, like wearing make-up, sex every- night, bjs and everything you can imagine, should I keep trying to see if he loves me enough to fall in love with me again. He means everything to me please help me!!!

[Lisa]

A situation such as this just happened to me and I went out of my way to treat my husband well (not that I didn't treat him well before) and help figure out what was going on. He was the type of person that "would never have an affair". Well, he was having an affair. Since I have discovered it, he has said he made a mistake and he wants our relationship back. He is now really trying to make things work. I don't think our relationship was being worked on at all until we both started working on it.

Good luck to you! I know how hard it is to hear that you may not be loved like you once were. I hope he isn't cheating.

Lisa

[Unregistered]

No, I know he is not having an affair. I just hope he sees that I am sorry and really I am hoping that I can spark some old feelings and hopefully he will fall in love all over again. He is the center of my life I see that now. I guess after so much hurt that I forgot to show my love for him.