when does God say its ok to divorce

[blondee1964]

I am the one thats married to the bipolor person
I am so drained at trying to save the marriage I see no hope.
I just wounder if its enough, the verable abuse the mental abuse,
he is addicted to porn I wounder if these are valid reasons for divorce? or how much should I keep taking? what does God think or say I should do?

[Kate]

Have you asked God what He wants you to do? I am sure that He is looking down in concern, love and compassion upon you, your husband and your family. He wants a relationship with you and He wants to help you. He has plans for your life and for your future. You are unique and precious to Him. If you find that hard to understand or believe, then turn to your church or Christian friends who can sit down with you and pray with you, who can listen to you and support you. Talk to your minister at church.

It is ok to admit to them that you have problems in life. We all have problems, to some degree and at certain times in our lives and few of us can face those completely alone.

If you believe that you are in danger or that you need some space or respite, then try and find friends or relatives to go and have a break with. You may belive that you are trapped, but there must be somewhere you can turn for help. People are here on line to listen, but you need people around you to talk to, to hug you and be there for you.

Kate