lack of trust

[nancy]

I need to know how to cope with an inability to trust when signs can be seen in a negative light.

[Unregistered]

Has your partner been unfaithful before? If so, then guard your heart and pray for wisdom and knowledge so that whatever is truly happening will be uncovered for you to view. Coming home late, staying on the computer to all hours, making lots of phone calls, changing his appearance all these things are tell tell signs. If or when you do finally find out, you should be most careful in how you handle the situation. Be as calm as possible, and as sophisticated and adult as you possible can. Meanwhile, start doing some unusual things yourself, turn it around and keep him guessing. Men love the chase.

[Kate]

It helps to understand what you mean by trust. There's an article about it (http://www.2-in-2-1.co.uk/healthclub/relbasictopic/trust/) on the site.

Best wishes

Kate