so jelous

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hi everyone how can i save my marriage all i do is moan i hate his job i hate him working with other women i cry all the time i have been like this for 2 years will i ever be normal i check up on him all the time IE phone bill his fax his pockets am i mad has anyone ever been like this how did you get over it

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Did something happen to make you feel this way? Or did it just kind of happen.

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he just started a new buisness and the job he does went to his head he likes the celebrity lifesyle now and i cant compete with that he lies to me about what people look like and if i ask he says things like it dont concern me and he dont have to jusify what he does he leaves me crying for hours just last nite he he left me crying for 7 hours what sort of man does that and then tells me he loves me but cant live with the **** i give him i just dont know what to do anymore we have been together 20 years and have 3 kids i have thought of finding someone else but i luv him to much

[Nellie]

If your husband makes you unhappy and cry then he needs to be taught a lesson. I would suggest that you find an alternative life, get out more and ejoy yourself. If he sees that you are moving forward and demonstrate greater confidence I think you will find hes in for a shock. Give it a go. and no more tears.

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thanks for the advice i will try to get out more and find new friend s i know that will help ive got to do it soon before i go mad