djh
12th August 2002, 07:33 PM
Hi Kate, I first came to this site in Dec last year after my wife went back to her mums. She admits that she fell into the Walk Away Wife catagory. I followed tons of advice, and even bought The Divorce Remedy book and followed it religiously. Well she came home in March after I took her to Paris for Valentines. Although shes home and I can put my hand on my heart and say I have changed a huge amount ,I do loads around the house now, changed my work from abroad to local and even opened a small Karate club nearby to further commit me to staying home. The thing is I'm begining to feel a bit resentful of the whole thing now. I think I'm getting slowly depressed by it all. We sleep in the same bed together but she has no interest in loving at all. We've not been intimate at all and I do mean not once since Nov 2001.Dont get me wrong I'd never be too pushy but my 31 year old hormones are screaming at me to just throw the towel in and find someone else for a quick one. I love Rach so much but I'm feeling an over whelming frustration and if theres any advice for or against just leaving for good I,ve come here for your council once again. There is no-one else involved.