sisters hen party vs friend's wedding

[Unregistered]

what would you do?- I've already accepted an invitation to a friends's wedding and now my sister has said that the only date she can make for her hen party is on the same day. Do I back out of the friend's wedding or miss the hen party?
Thank you!

[Kate]

I suppose it depends how impoprtant you view a hen night and how close a friend it is who is getting married. I personally see a wedding as a more important occasion, but others value the hen night.

Have you also talked it through with your sister to see how much it matters to her?

It's not an easy decision.

All the best

Kate