firefolk
7th August 2002, 04:59 AM
After 42 years of marriage my husband says that he still loves me, however he has been unfaithful, he said that he would stop seeing this other woman who is 10 years younger than our son.
countless promises later I found that he had made a date for Monday for this other woman to pick him up to go to the jim and a "romp" in the hay. I confronted him on Sunday when I found the message. I took the Car Keys and left telling him I needed to think and would be back when I felt like it. I went to my sons house and had a talk with him and his wife. At last now I have a place to go when I leave. I went home 3 hours later, only to have my husband tell me he was having chest pains and thought he was having a heart attack. He is now in the hospital. I am by his side. I am still hurt and angry. I only hope that this will make him think. Our Marriage has at times been rocky. My husband finally faced and overcame his alcoholism 10 years ago.
even though his facing alcoholism caused him to lose his job, and all our savings. His physical abuse of me stopped and life though hard became bearable. We moved back to Las Vegas where I was able to find a Job. He would not go back to work. and still will not go back to work. Through my working we were finally able to buy a home again and have a decent car. I was lloking forward to retiring next week. Now I am aprehensive with my situation, however I am tired and am, still going ahead with my retirement. At least now, I feel stronger that when he was forced to face his alcoholism. All I can think is that he has merely changed his addiction from Alcohol to Sex. I went to my Doctor, He advised me not to sleep with my husband because of the very danger of contacting a disease that could kill me. My husband fully admits he has being unfaithful with this other woman. He wanted me to give permission to see her once a week. I found a message from a prostitute stating her prices on line. My husband claims that he has not seen her, however, he was out during the time he made a date with her, hwe came home stating he lost $100.00 Her Charge for the first encounter was to be $200.
He also wants me to go with him to a Swap Club, I have emphatically refused. He is also into BD&SM and is constantly invited to their activities. This OW is into that. I am very concerned. This OW is a School Teacher, and is also married.
How can they allow a person with such low moral values to teach our children. I researched the Prostitutye on line and was able to find her address and Phone Number I turened it into the Vice Un it at our Police Department.
countless promises later I found that he had made a date for Monday for this other woman to pick him up to go to the jim and a "romp" in the hay. I confronted him on Sunday when I found the message. I took the Car Keys and left telling him I needed to think and would be back when I felt like it. I went to my sons house and had a talk with him and his wife. At last now I have a place to go when I leave. I went home 3 hours later, only to have my husband tell me he was having chest pains and thought he was having a heart attack. He is now in the hospital. I am by his side. I am still hurt and angry. I only hope that this will make him think. Our Marriage has at times been rocky. My husband finally faced and overcame his alcoholism 10 years ago.
even though his facing alcoholism caused him to lose his job, and all our savings. His physical abuse of me stopped and life though hard became bearable. We moved back to Las Vegas where I was able to find a Job. He would not go back to work. and still will not go back to work. Through my working we were finally able to buy a home again and have a decent car. I was lloking forward to retiring next week. Now I am aprehensive with my situation, however I am tired and am, still going ahead with my retirement. At least now, I feel stronger that when he was forced to face his alcoholism. All I can think is that he has merely changed his addiction from Alcohol to Sex. I went to my Doctor, He advised me not to sleep with my husband because of the very danger of contacting a disease that could kill me. My husband fully admits he has being unfaithful with this other woman. He wanted me to give permission to see her once a week. I found a message from a prostitute stating her prices on line. My husband claims that he has not seen her, however, he was out during the time he made a date with her, hwe came home stating he lost $100.00 Her Charge for the first encounter was to be $200.
He also wants me to go with him to a Swap Club, I have emphatically refused. He is also into BD&SM and is constantly invited to their activities. This OW is into that. I am very concerned. This OW is a School Teacher, and is also married.
How can they allow a person with such low moral values to teach our children. I researched the Prostitutye on line and was able to find her address and Phone Number I turened it into the Vice Un it at our Police Department.