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24th July 2002, 09:36 AM
i've been married for 7 years. our marriage was a great one (at least, that was what i thought). my husband just confessed to me that he had an affair. with an office co worker for the last 1 1/2 years. they started having sex 1/2 year ago.
my whole world came crushing down the moment he confessed to me. i have never felt so dissapointed , angry , devastated and so much pain before. been crying my heart out for the past 2 weeks but not able to think and solve our problems.
he says he still loves me and want this marriage to work out. i love him very much that i am willing to forgive him and start over again. however , the problem now lies in the other woman. she is now pregnant with his child (2 months).
we both know that the child is innocent and we adults are responsible. we want a solution/option that is in the best interest of the child but can't seem to agree or compromise.
i am very keen and stick to my principle of a marriage can only consist of a man and a woman. no two women in a home. i definately cannot accept the other woman. i am even willing to adopt her child as she is still single. however she insist on having to keep the child to herself and still hoping to continue this affair with my husband. how can i allow this to go on ? this is impossible. i even told my husband , it is either me or her. my husband is a responsible man and he wants the best for both of us and the child but he can't seem to think of a good solution.
would appreciate anyone out there with similar situation , please advise or suggest options available.
thank you.
my whole world came crushing down the moment he confessed to me. i have never felt so dissapointed , angry , devastated and so much pain before. been crying my heart out for the past 2 weeks but not able to think and solve our problems.
he says he still loves me and want this marriage to work out. i love him very much that i am willing to forgive him and start over again. however , the problem now lies in the other woman. she is now pregnant with his child (2 months).
we both know that the child is innocent and we adults are responsible. we want a solution/option that is in the best interest of the child but can't seem to agree or compromise.
i am very keen and stick to my principle of a marriage can only consist of a man and a woman. no two women in a home. i definately cannot accept the other woman. i am even willing to adopt her child as she is still single. however she insist on having to keep the child to herself and still hoping to continue this affair with my husband. how can i allow this to go on ? this is impossible. i even told my husband , it is either me or her. my husband is a responsible man and he wants the best for both of us and the child but he can't seem to think of a good solution.
would appreciate anyone out there with similar situation , please advise or suggest options available.
thank you.