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14th June 2002, 01:58 AM
I was able to have an Attorney come to my mother's house tomorrow night to talk to my parents and I to see what my options are if H files for divorce. However, the only way that I could go over there without my H suspecting anything was to say that my mother invited me and the baby over for dinner.
Well H told his mother and now my MIL is mad at my mother for not including her son. I really don't want to cancel the Attorney but I also don't want there to be tension between my mother and my MIL. I felt that this was the only way that I could meet with the Attorney without H getting suspicious. I never thought that my H would tell his mother and then her getting upset at my mother. This situation is getting worse by the minute.
As a brief history: my husband told me three weeks ago that he no longer loves me, is very unhappy, won't see a Counselor and basically doesn't care what I do anymore. We are barely sleeping with each other. I went to the Counselor anyway and she basically said that there is really no hope.
Did I really mess up?
Well H told his mother and now my MIL is mad at my mother for not including her son. I really don't want to cancel the Attorney but I also don't want there to be tension between my mother and my MIL. I felt that this was the only way that I could meet with the Attorney without H getting suspicious. I never thought that my H would tell his mother and then her getting upset at my mother. This situation is getting worse by the minute.
As a brief history: my husband told me three weeks ago that he no longer loves me, is very unhappy, won't see a Counselor and basically doesn't care what I do anymore. We are barely sleeping with each other. I went to the Counselor anyway and she basically said that there is really no hope.
Did I really mess up?