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2nd November 2009, 10:54 PM
My wife is 38 years old with a 13 year old son. She told me in January that she was no longer in love with me. We have been married for 17 years. She wanted space to decide if she wanted the marriage anymore.
She was showing the classic signs:-
Angry with me
Bored with life and work
Gone off sex
Felt that our son was now independent and no longer needed her
Wanted to end our marriage

I tried everything to reconcile the marriage. Moved out, Relate, moved back home and eventually she wanted to move out and left our son with me.

I am really worried about her and want to help her to help herself, as both myself and my son want the marriage back.

But how can I help her? I am the last person she will listen too.

This has been going on for 9 months without any shift. We have spent some times together, breakfast out and lunches etc
I know I showed her that I was desperate and clingy, but that's how my emotions reacted, but feeling more relaxed now though.

I have now implemented LC, because of our son, and have only spoken to her once today, she called me, regarding tonights babysitting arrangements.

I really could do with some advice on this one. I know you guys won't let me down.


Mark