Do Things Improve..????

[ASD]

...Well its two months now since my wife left me and told me that she no longer loved me, i have really struggled to come to terms with the enormity of it all as it was a bolt out of the blue (see post titled 'Gutted.. please help' in this section). Nothing has changed, i steel feel the same about her, i miss her deeply and my son whom i rarely see now... life sucks at the moment and i just can not see it improving. I had hoped that she would see sense but she is determined to sell our house, get her own place and move on, but by her own admission she is not sure that she is doing the right thing... she says that she needs to do it so that she will know what she wants, where does that leave me, clinging onto a glimmer of hope? i am so desperate to be back with her that i am stupid enough to wait on the off chance that 6 months down the line she will realise her mistake! I am a good looking guy and can meet other women but she is the one, we have been together for 10 years and i have never even looked at anyone else that is why it is so hard for me to move on i think because i feel no one else can match up to my wife....what the hell can i do to start to feel better...i know that she is making a mistake and acting impulsively but my hands are tied, i feel helpless and not in control of my own destiny....

[sean1234]

Hey mate read my post underneath and im feeling as terrible as u.It has only just happened to me and my feelings are the same as yours.I just see no light at the end of the tunnel.She says it hurts just to talk to me.Maybe you can give me some advice and we can support each other.Sean

[ASD]

Yes...why not, find my earlier post i think it is on page 3 of this feed...probably the same situation!

[sean1234]

Sounds like u drifted like me mate.how old are both of you.Have u read my story what do you think?They seem to just change out of the blue.Its absolutely destroying me at the moment.

[ASD]

i am 39 my wife is 29... she is telling me that she missed out on her party years because she was with me, i am not an old man and we used to go clubbing, traveling, in fact had a bloody good life, then as is the norm settled down, married and had our son who is only 3......then bang home she comes from work one day and hits me with it all....

[sean1234]

Which thread do you want 2 talk on shaun s were going between the 2.ive left a message on mine 4 u.Believe me mate im thinking about u and it i really think we could help each other pull through these darkest of times.Sean

[ASD]

Either thread does not matter gonna log off for a bit cos going to the swings with my son so catch up soon...take care and yes there are a lot of similarities keep in touch..