My wife Moved out with Child- Any hopes

[maloi]

My name is Tim and am from Kenya, have been in a marriage somewhat customary as that is really common here in kenya. We had been married for 3 years but been in a relationship for 8 years,Our relationship has been fine though sdhaky as I had invited my younger siblings to come live with us in our house as it was spacious and I am their guardian after my parents fell ill. My brothers go to school though. Last week she started telling me she feels unsecure as I am spending most of my time and energy on my family instead of her and our 3 years old baby. I told her that since I am able to take care of the the house and food and other requirements for her and the baby, it was a blessing for me also to help my siblings and buy medication for my parents as well. So I left it at that,On saturday morning, 1st August I woke up to a rude awakening when she packed everything from the house including the beds we were sleeping on and said she waqnted to stay alone for a year and soul search, I said no problem, and so she moved with my baby and left the house empty for me, I now am healing but pray GOD to show me the way and open her minds so she doesnt make wrong decisions.

Would appreciate your advice on this matter as I do not know what to do for now

Thanks and GOD bless,

tim

[Johnee S]

Tim I am sorry to hear things have gone as they ave. The only advice I can offer you is to make her and your child number 1 priority. she does nto feel loved or appreciated by you nor does she feel in control of her home with all your siblings. The fact you granted her the right to leave you in her mind was like telling her you don't want her in your life and home.

Women no matter whom or where need to feel like they matter and that they are your greatest treasure, your child also your most sacred treasure; not giving her this causes your marriage to crash hard. You must find it in your heart to speak to her from your heart and convince her how much you care about them; you need to give them as much time and energy to show them how much they mean to you. I wish you and yours well, I hope your parents get well.