How To Get My Wife To Love Me Again

[ED PAULUS]

AFTER BEING TOGETHER 30 YEARS MARRIED FOR24 YEARSMY WIFE TELLS ME SHE DOSENT LOVE ME ANY MORE WE HAVE NEVER FOUGHT OVER ANY THING WE HAVE TWO KIDS A SON 22 AND A DAUGHTER 21 AND NOW SHE WANTS ME TO SPLIT .WHAT DO I DO ?

[Unregistered]

I know how you feel. After 10 years, i am in the same boat. We have 3 kids, all 13 and less. I wish i could tell you how to win her back, but nothing is really working for me. I can recomend counseling, if not for both of you, at least for yourself. Good luck, my prayers are with you.

[Liz]

Ed, Have you tried to draw your wife out to talk about what is wrong. If you have never argued, it may be that she has been burying hurts and disappointments over the years, and you have not realised. If this goes on long enough the pain can overcome the feelings we have for each other and damage our commitment to one another, but love is not simply about feelings and there is always the possibility of acknowledging the mistakes of the past asking each other's forgiveness and starting again.