cheathing wife

[dodgevic]

need help,i bein married for 10 yrs,cauth my wife cheating with a co-worker, they bein having a affair for 4moths. my wife said hes in love with this guy. it all started when the guy was having problem with his wife. he started talking to my wife about it.and then it went down hill... from their.we have 2 kids and she move out to a app,we still talk ,i ask her whats up with us and she said does not now what to do she said she in love with him,last night i pick up the kids and she said the guy is comming the apparment, guys i need to know what to do,will she come around,she said the guy treatsher good ,he listen to her, ect,( by the info hes married too) what to do???

[dave123]

Hi Dodge,

For the moment it sounds like she has made her mind up. 2 unhappy people getting together like this are probably both looking for some comfort and understanding which they feel they are not getting at home. In my opinion their relationship won't be based on strong foundations and will probably fail too. Be honest with your wife about your feelings and then concentrate on yourself for a bit. She may decide to come back, or not. All you can do is look out for number 1. We need to let go off the things we can't control.

Take care of yourself,

Dave