lanzarotedoll
2nd January 2009, 01:40 PM
Hey Folks
Its been a while since I posted until today so thought Id update those who may be familiar with my tale of woe!
After finding out hubby deceived me 6 months ago, we're back together at the minute but it's far from happy. He's still out and about doing his own thing and Im more or less back to holding the babies!
We tried counselling but youve both got to want to do it and he didnt so it didnt work. We are more honest and upfront about our feelings but Im feeling its not enough.
Sex is good after having denied him it for a while - this pissed him off but instead of talking to me about why I said no all the time he just let it fester. When I tried speaking to him about it he'd poo hoo my reasoning and call me a nag.
So Im more or less back to square one desparate to sell the house so we can finally get a decision made about our future. Im hoping 2009 is a better year for me.
Here's to everyone who's hurting - hope you have a much better 2009.
LD
x
Its been a while since I posted until today so thought Id update those who may be familiar with my tale of woe!
After finding out hubby deceived me 6 months ago, we're back together at the minute but it's far from happy. He's still out and about doing his own thing and Im more or less back to holding the babies!
We tried counselling but youve both got to want to do it and he didnt so it didnt work. We are more honest and upfront about our feelings but Im feeling its not enough.
Sex is good after having denied him it for a while - this pissed him off but instead of talking to me about why I said no all the time he just let it fester. When I tried speaking to him about it he'd poo hoo my reasoning and call me a nag.
So Im more or less back to square one desparate to sell the house so we can finally get a decision made about our future. Im hoping 2009 is a better year for me.
Here's to everyone who's hurting - hope you have a much better 2009.
LD
x