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maceecam
31st December 2008, 06:52 PM
To start off, when the wife and i started dating, i didn't have a problem with her communicating (phone, email, txt) with her ex's...

Once engaged, it became unfavorable & I expressed this to her about 4 months before our wedding...

She told me she would never communicate with him again...

Last night, I found a txt message on her phone from him saying to check her email, his number was saved in her phone as B (short for his full name)

We got in a large fight last night, which resulted in me calling the ex to cuss him out...

Am I wrong?

I can just use a little advise.

Thanks

Raymond
31st December 2008, 07:01 PM
I don't think you are wrong mac. Engagement means you are now bethrothed and are getting ready to commit yourself permantly to the other. Having made that commitment in marriage the focus should be on each other and your life together. Anything smacking of previous loves and contacts should be seperated from the commitment you have for each other.

I think you are entitled to act the way you have. You have comitted yourself to her in marriage and should expect nothing less from her. I would carry on dealing with it as you are. Don't let these little things sprout roots and become great big trees. You are very wise and your wife is a bit out of line.

Raymond

jjjj_jjjj
31st December 2008, 08:33 PM
Not wrong at all! Get a key logger and check her emails. in box and out box