Hello old faces

[nik1h]

Seen a few old faces on here as I popped by so thought would say hi, and a happy new year to them. In fact to everyone. Breakups are hell. Best of luck to you all in 2009



Nick

[Helen_uk]

Hi Nik

Yup I still pop in from time to time...

Break ups are hell... but it gets better...

Wishing you a happy and peaceful new year.

Helen x

[huskypup]

Hi everyone

Not sure if any of you remember me from last year, I also pop back in and out, this site was a brilliant help to me and some of the people on it have now become life long friends.

To those who wonder whether you can get back together - yes you can, it takes alot of shouting, alot of tears and alot of love and patience, we got back together christmas last year, this year has been trying at times but we have got through it together.

So I want to wish everyone a really happy 2009, you are the one that controls your llife not a situation or someone else.

" If Im not happy I can not make those around me happy"

Love & hugs

Huskypup
xx

[aqua]

Hey nik, who are you calling an old face ?? :eek::D

Hope 2009 is less bumpy for you.

Helen, I see you around now and again, but not on here (hehehe)

Enjoy 2009.

I intend to.

aqua xx

[Helen_uk]

Ha ha aqua... have you been looking ? :D
Happy 2009 to you !
xx

[aqua]

In my defence, I 'm not a stalker , m'lud.

I have not been deliberately looking. Have you not spotted me, Helen??? ;):D:D

[spiderman]

Hi all I used to be known as Morty1961 on here. Hi Aqua long time no speak...?????

Hows tricks ?

All the best to everyone for 2009

Spidy

[aqua]

Hi there morty

Hope 2008 went smoothly for you and things have settled down

"How's tricks?" you ask well, I haven't resorted to turning any !!!!

I've weathered a rather stormy year and now all there is is blue skies.

Happy New Year, mate

aqua x

[Ginger God]

The Ginger God is still alive and kicking and delightfully happy.....

There is life after break up...

[spiderman]

Hi there morty

Hope 2008 went smoothly for you and things have settled down

"How's tricks?" you ask well, I haven't resorted to turning any !!!!

I've weathered a rather stormy year and now all there is is blue skies.

Happy New Year, mate

aqua x

Still a rollercoaster ride D :rolleyes:

[aqua]

Hi Ginge

"There is life after break up... " Amen to that!!

Morty - oh dear!

[Helen_uk]

I haven't aqua...in fact I thought you'd left after that idiot...well you know what I mean !

I think I emailed you a while ago, not sure if you got it ?

Anyway.. onwards and upwards...

Graham... I reckon you're living proof that life can be excellent after a break up ;-)

[Kimberley1967]

Hello everyone hope you are all well thought I would stop by I used to be Kimberley but had to become Kimberley1967 after computer probs. Im still single 3 christmases gave internet dating a go bit of a disaster so giving it a miss for a while. Moved house and job and left behind my ex husband he is still with the other woman and I couldnt care less. Feels better as never see them now only moved six miles but out of sight out of mind. Daughters 19 and 13 now and I think this forum saved my sanity when my marriage fell apart. Hope everyone has a good 2009 -ginger god well done you - you certainly sound so positive.:)

Kim X

[nik1h]

Aqua you are old!!!!! Me too. 40 now :(

My aim is to be where Ginger is this year. Happy go lucky.

Should be divorced in February. Got shared residancy of son so in some ways I am lucky.

Hope Highlander is ok too and Teacherman.

[Highlander]

Hey, hey!

Still hanging around on here too... still having ups and downs, but have resolved to try and do something about it in 2009.

Bon Chance, all of you :-)

[Micou]

Dear All and a very happy and prosperous new year to you!

I am still alive and kicking. After spending many months in sheer hell I finally came to the decision that the husband had to go! So earlier this month we both agreed to go our separate ways. I feel completely at peace with this decision and in fact it feels as if a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders! He is a liar and a cheat and I am sick and fed up of the second best life that he was very happy for me to live.

I am optimistic for my future and for my children. They are doing brilliantly at school and, though I wouldn't have wished for my marriage to end like this - till death do us part and all that jazz, I know that I am going to be just fine! I am very happy to live alone, raise my kids and maybe one day when the time is right I might meet that special someone, but until then, let life unfold as it should.

So many of you on here saved my life - yes, you literally saved my sanity and my life! I used to be on here regularly while I was going through hell and your advice, love and support got me through it all. The past doesn't hurt anymore - or at least it doesn't hurt as much.

On Valentine's day 2009 (next month) it will be one year since I found out about husband's latest affair and I am still standing!

Thank you all so very, very much for having been my rock when I needed the help.

(((HUGS)))

Micou
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[Kimberley1967]

think finally broke the curse of any one ever living up to my ex husband's shadow and fell very much in love in April. Never think about the ex now and blissfully happy only took 5 years :)

[UpandDown]

I don't know you.....but HOORAY!!!
x

[batman]

Hello all you old-timers!
I'm an old face too but incognito like spiderman. Its good to see some of you are getting on and moved on. Not so good for some of you others recently though H. I think most of the old-timers will probably look in now and again to see if they spot a familiar name.

Nice to see Raymond is still doing his best to help too.

Thinking of you all.