14th February 2002, 04:53 AM
I found out my husband was having an affair while he left the house to figure. I left for the holidays for the sake of it being our daughters first christmas and while we were gone he told me everything and said he wanted to make our marriage work. He came and got us bought us home and than a week later bought home moving boxes. When I asked who they were for he said me or him and since I knew he had no place to go I took them. I than realized he was back with her again. He has admitted to being back with her agin but says he knows he needs to figure things out and wants to leave her. He says he loves me and realizes that we are best friends. He says he doesn't know why he had the affair and wants to help himself. Whenever we talk he says he loves me and he says this time it is not for the kids he knows he loves me and is very sorry for everything that he has done to me. I am so afraid tha he will hurt me again and how do I know that when he tells me he ended it with her if he really has since we are living in 2 different states. I wonder if he wants his cake and eat it to if youknow what I mean. He knows I love him very much and will doing anything to make our marriage work. I don't want to fall again and get hurt. Please someone help me and give me some advice.