Cant Breathe

[Dennis1965]

My Wife of several years after what was a good weekend did not come home for a week. I was worried sick and called her friends after the first night. They told me she went on vacation to think. The whole week I was devastated. When she came back she said she did not love me anymore and asked me to move out. I did after two weeks when I could not talk her out of it. Now I am in a hotel and cannot function, She will not return my calls. I have never hurt this much.

[Raymond]

Weren't any other reasons given Dennis? Quite frankly it is a bit immature to say I don't feel I love you any more. Marriage is more than just a feeling. You are entitled to know more. To say I don't feel I love you anymore closes the door to any kind of reasoning.

Raymond

[jackchen]

hope a better article

[angie1313]

Was there someone else? Were you unfaithful?

[Bob Pure]

Hello Dennis
Sorry you find yourself here, friend.

Can you give some more information please ? How long have you been married ? Any history of adultery ? Any children ? What ages are you ? First or subsequent marriage ? How was your M prior to this incident ?

All this data helps determine a response.

All blessings to you. MANY people recover marriages from disaster, Dennis. I know I am one. Have faith.

[1aokgal]

Dennis1965.......

You can pretty much bet she had a man in the wings to take off for the week and give you walking papers. Sounds like this escape plan was put into action a long time ago and you just got the news.

There is nothing here to work with as she made a decision and road looks all good to her. If it were me, I would not be a gentleman and would make it down and dirty on assets and obligations as her name off all joint accounts before you end up with lots of debts from her goodbye.

When someone plays that unfair, they don't deserve courtesy. Don't spend time to look over your shoulder as there is no substance there. Funny, you had no indication this was in progress? A woman usually has a man to go to when it is this cut and dry. Don't go in for pay backs but don't be a pushover where you can hold onto what is yours.

Maybe the fact you had no clue was part of the problem? Sounds to me as if you ween't around to know this woman or were very pre-occupied. That may have cost you. I take it there are no children?
Say goodbye and realize this person left you with little respect and dosen't merit a lot of cooperation when negotiation takes place. Hang on to your and hers as well if you can. I say this..and I am a woman. She plays too dirty for words. Sorry, you are the last to know.