KGC
30th May 2008, 12:39 AM
If anyone read my last questions, you’ll know I had a lot of problem with Jack, my husband of fourteen years. Last week I told him by the time he get back from his next job which is suppose to last about four months, he better have his mind made up about what he want in life. Now I think I really regret everything. My worst fear has come to be true.
Yesterday morning, after he the night before, I got up and noticed both of his cars was missing. I knew something wasn’t right. I tried to call Jack but didn't had any luck. So after I dropped the kids off at the school, I went to check the bank account. I was shocked to find there were just enough moneys to last for only a month. Everything else was wiped out clean and transferred to Luxembourg on Tuesday. When I tried to contact the bank in Luxembourg, they refused to give me any information.
His office was a mess. Many things was missing, his personal computer that he uses for business was smashed to pieces, there was absolutely no papers of any kind anywhere, his cell phone was smashed as well, a couple books were missed or have pages ripped out, and many other important things to him such as his handguns, couple watches, some of his best suit, and other things were missing as well. He left his wedding ring on the computer table. So I know this mean he’s trying to cover up every track and isn’t coming back.
I’m so upset about everything. I don’t know how I’ll be able to keep the usual life for myself and the kids with him gone. I don’t know what to do any more. I know I cannot even make half of what Jack make. So I cannot even support the life that I and our kids have or keep this house or my car even if I get a job. I don’t want to move to other neighbor or work and not being able to be there for my kids any more.
I can’t believe Jack would do this. I thought he’d have more integrity than to do this. My father has been trying to call lawyer for most of the day and trying to find the best one. I’m hoping to hear something by tonight so I can try to see if there’s anything I can do. I haven’t even told the kids anything yet and I’m really scared to and I don’t know what to tell them. I’m worried they already know something; they already asked where two other cars are which I didn’t say a thing about.
Is there any possible way to get spousal support or some way to get him to pay children support with a good lawyer even if I don’t know where Jack is at all? Is there any way to track him down or get the bank information?
Yesterday morning, after he the night before, I got up and noticed both of his cars was missing. I knew something wasn’t right. I tried to call Jack but didn't had any luck. So after I dropped the kids off at the school, I went to check the bank account. I was shocked to find there were just enough moneys to last for only a month. Everything else was wiped out clean and transferred to Luxembourg on Tuesday. When I tried to contact the bank in Luxembourg, they refused to give me any information.
His office was a mess. Many things was missing, his personal computer that he uses for business was smashed to pieces, there was absolutely no papers of any kind anywhere, his cell phone was smashed as well, a couple books were missed or have pages ripped out, and many other important things to him such as his handguns, couple watches, some of his best suit, and other things were missing as well. He left his wedding ring on the computer table. So I know this mean he’s trying to cover up every track and isn’t coming back.
I’m so upset about everything. I don’t know how I’ll be able to keep the usual life for myself and the kids with him gone. I don’t know what to do any more. I know I cannot even make half of what Jack make. So I cannot even support the life that I and our kids have or keep this house or my car even if I get a job. I don’t want to move to other neighbor or work and not being able to be there for my kids any more.
I can’t believe Jack would do this. I thought he’d have more integrity than to do this. My father has been trying to call lawyer for most of the day and trying to find the best one. I’m hoping to hear something by tonight so I can try to see if there’s anything I can do. I haven’t even told the kids anything yet and I’m really scared to and I don’t know what to tell them. I’m worried they already know something; they already asked where two other cars are which I didn’t say a thing about.
Is there any possible way to get spousal support or some way to get him to pay children support with a good lawyer even if I don’t know where Jack is at all? Is there any way to track him down or get the bank information?