He doesn't seem to notice me

[daisyroots]

Please help. I'm 31 years old and been married for 12 years. I just don't feel attracted to my husband anymore. He doesn't seem to noticed me and spends more time egrossed with his hobbies then spending time with me and our daughter. Our conversations and physical contact is none exsistant. When I triy to talk to him about it he puts it down to the fact he has lost his libido and that i'm just trying to stop him doing the things he loves. Should I leave him? Sometimes I feel I'm only in this relationship for the sake of our daughter, don't get me wrong she is the best thing to happen to me and I wouldn't change that for the world. But just recently I feel my life is going no where fast.

Please help.......

[nick6277]

iam 31 and have been with my husband 12 years also.the marriage is in a word ****e.i feel he doesnt give a hoot about me or my feelings.we have three girls whom like you i wouldnt be without but is it worth staying with a man who makes me feel worthless.iam getting stronger and saying no.iam fed up with the arguements and have realised that if somebody dies you cant bring them back they have gone. and its the same with a marriage if its dead its dead and you cant bring it back.i need a bit of help as to how iget out of this situation and what do i do for the best....iam not well off and it takes money to leave what do i do?