Stupid in-laws

[SadBill]

I just got mail from my ex wife's mother asking me not to contact her over the next month (our anniversary is next month) as she is finding this hard to deal with.
As if I would! God they can be so stupid people. I have no intention of trying to contact her other than to deal with out daughters, and she is the one that had the affair, not me. Damn it does this ever get easier?
God bless you, (some times I wonder if he will ever bless me...)
Bill.

[kyalan]

I think your in-laws must be related to mine - frustrating I know

I collect my son this morning, tears rolling down my face, and the father-in-law comes out with a big grin on his face and says "are you alright?"

TW*T!

[912jws]

I often wonder what in-laws think of our situations, whether they have a one track mind and only support their children or whether they believe in marraige and actually have some thought for their son/daughter in-laws and things need to be worked at?

From my experience they only care about what's best for their children and not the family as a whole :(

[aqua]

Hi

I have wonderful in laws. They have tried very hard to be fair to both 'sides'. They are very keen to still have a relationship with me and to help me and my children in whatever way they can. They told me they would always see me as their daughter in law, come what may.

They don't interfere, but it does pain them greatly that their son has wrecked his family. They often acknowledge that I've done a great job with the children and how well I've adapted to the change in situation and helped the children through it.

I'm very lucky to have such support.

aqua

[Alice Alice]

Dear SadBill

In-laws (mom and dad of... Husbands or Wives) are strange after spray or imprint of their personality...my mother in law is 100% of all the things i don't like about my Husband and worse then him.
I really liked her when i first met him as the years went on the strength i had to carry her in my heart went sore...once i realized my husbands hurtful actions of watching porn would seem to never go away that's when she became the most annoying woman to listen to her conversations were always self centered and before it didn't bother me she was lovely no matter what because i thought my Hubby loved me no matter what...:(

[val100]

I am afraid that if I say anything on this thread I won't be able to stop.
My AUNT in law wrote to my H telling him to leave me and our kids that it was going to kill his mother if we stayed together. supposedly I rang and abused her and she just cannot cope Now I call her a bitch. I rang to ask for her help as her son's behaviour was so abusive that I really was begining to worry about my sanity, I mean that I have been so close to the edge due to his violence and abuse. She told me she couldn't interfereOH MY GOD NOW SHE CAN'T INTERFERE NOW BUT SHE COULD FOR THE 15 YRS WE WERE TOGETHER, this women got into my house after we had split and went through my bank statements!!!!!!
I rang her a second time because of this and to sort out her seeing MY CHILDREN,!!!!
I told her why I was angry I asked her to listen she has never once rang me in a year to see how I am coping. SHE told him I deserved his sexual assualt !!!

SORRY I shouldn't talk about this anymore. She caused so much hurt in our relationship thank god she is out of my life.

Sorry sadbill yours are acting the maggot.

[nik1h]

Mine have been fantastic. Wife knows exactly how they feel

Speak with MIL almost daily trying to find out why she left and if there is any hope though ultimately she stops short of full support. I also spend every other sunday with her and son and have tea there so they aren't all bad!