crushed.

[saralouise]

Hi all,i am new to these boards so,i will keep it short!!I have been with my partner for 15 years now,found out last week that he has been having an affair for 18 months.We have two children together,aged 10 and 5.I have met the other women as,she didn't have a clue that we were still together,he told her that he still lived at his parents and,he lives with us!!!He met her twice a week,as he said that he was taking care of his kids every other night as i was at work???I only found out as i found a valentines card in his car,and videos on his phone.To say that i am gutted is an understatement,what can i do??He finished it with the other women,two days before i found out,i can't sleep or eat as i feel physically sick by him.What can i do??thanks for listening.x

[Raymond]

This is like adultery Saralouise. Your trust has been broken. This will take ages to build up again. A lot will depend on him. How sorry is he that he hurt you. If that is not there it doesn't bode well. There is no secure relationship with someone who behaves like this.

Raymond