friends??

[Coffeebean]

Just been on face book to find that I only have 6 people on mine and my h has 41 and has been sending loads of messages to loads of them. All I got was a dunk text. I have no friends. Billy no mates :( I know its stupid silly to be upset about this but I am.

Anyone here consider me a friend? If no one just please ignore me to create more imaginary friends.

[Alice Alice]

Look me up
i'm under
GABS M

;)

[huskypup]

Hi Coffee bean

Look me up under Coulson N.

Your not without friends:).

I haven't been around much recently, as things with me and HB are good, we are working through his episode, taking paitience on both parts, alot of tears, but we are learning to laugh again, silly laughter.

Keep smiling

Hugs for you
x

[teacherman]

Hi Coffeebean
I am not on facebook or any of those sort of sites but I will always consider you as my
Friend.

I thought I was the billy no mates Lol

Big hugs and smiles
Tim

[nik1h]

No im the billy no mates. All deserted me in my hour of need cos I got married and didnt go out on the piss!!!!

CB yes you have friends here. Use them u whenever you need.

Tim, we live close. She got any mates 25-35??????????

[teacherman]

sorry Nik
most of her friends are my age 40/50 mind you you have never lived till you try an older woman. they can teach you a lot about yourself. Lol

Mind you I am feeling a lot like a 25 year old again. Never knew there was so much life in this old dog.

CB Niks right you have got friends here, You can use me anytime you want

Timbo
Still smiling and definately still a dirty stopout

[nik1h]

Younger sisters???


Bah im getting desperate arent I!!!!!! Prob not in that place anyway, but as you've proved, it just takes the right circumstance or person. Still love wife I do. Bitch!

[Coffeebean]

ah thanks guys. So much. I've been a bit down today and this has really bucked me up. I can't seem to found out how to get friends on to face book - never had to :( so i'm serena chappell on mine. Perhaps you could invite me. I promise to say yes :)

Teacherman you are so not billy no mates it untrue. Nik1h everything takes time. Your going to walk down the street and suddenly bam the most perfect person to ever come into your life.

Alice - thanks so much I just had a feeling you would reply :)

Huskey pup I am so pleased that things are going well. Do keep on here to talk to us though I get lonesome.

I'm struggling with panic attacks since my sister's divorce which is just pathetic cause its her problem but it has made me 2nd guess my h again so thank you so much for all coming through for me

[teacherman]

hey Nik
Dont be sad that you still love your wife - I do (Mine that is, not yours)
Its just that i dont love her in that way anymore.

I thought after what happened a few weeks ago that i just wasnt ready to move on but then Bamm looks whats happened. We have spent the last few days in each others company and it gets better every day.

Weve both just sat here and bawled our eyes out at a film on TCM (Jazz singer - neil diamond)
one of my favourites. Shes actually read some of my posts and threads and is amazed how much people can bear their souls and help total strangers.

If it hadnt have been for you guys i wouldnt be in the happy place i am at now.

You, Tia, Coffeebean,micou,val, Lonelylass and others have been my lifelines over the last few months
and we both thanks you.

it will happen, just when you least expect it. I wasnt looking for this and after the other week I sure as hell didnt think I was ready but there you go.

CB forget the panic attacks - they are probably being caused by whats going on with your sis.
You are strong and you can continue rebuilding your life.

My mum always used to give me one piece of advice - Take one day at a time cos tomorrow might never come. Live for today and enjoy it. We are

Tim

[teacherman]

P.S. Going to bed now and for the first time in a long while I am not going to be alone!!!!!!!!!!!
Yippeeeeeeee:cool::cool::p

[tia1500]

Hi coffeebean
We are all friends on here i,m one of them .Would be lost without you guys.:)

TIM your still being a tart "TART" Good on you :D

[teacherman]

He He
God what a great night!!!!!!!!!!:D:D:D:D:D

Getting up - I said getting up not getting it up was a bit of a problem this morning but hey its been a beautiful day.

:):):)

[lonelylass]

Coffeebean,:)
You are never alone on here, Micou was supposed to be setting us all up chat on msn, so I'm sure she'll drop you a line if you give her your email.

:(
Tim, you have just tugged at my heartstrings "you have never lived till you try an older woman", well that's what my H has just done with a slut 10yrs older than me and he is having sloppy thirds as he isn't her first gullable idiot. Sorry, I thought I was over him, but that just bought it back, EERRRRRR he is so not worth it, still, what goes around comes around.
Buggery bolox, I was feeling so much better too, hangover doesn't help though!

I'm glad things are working out for you, well done, now you have found YOU!:D
LoLa x

[Coffeebean]

ah thanks you guys. Teacherman thanks so much for your wise words your right just carrying on. So you sound really happy i'm so pleased that you are and know that everyone here will get to this stage in their life sometime soon - including my sister.

My email is serena.chappell@ntlworld.com i'd love to be added to msm for chatting :)

[Alice Alice]

i thought i found you on face book?
maybe it was the wrong coffeebean?
yeahhhhhh the weekend!!!

[val100]

Tim Tart Teacherman, Enough for gods sake we know you are getting some loving but seriously, Micuo get the chockey cake I am gonna squish it in his face, Lol

All going well for me too just do't hear me bragging just sitting with the cheakiest smirk.

you go tim!!!!

[teacherman]

And what exactly has put that smirk on your face

Come on tell all - I had too cos you lot wouldnt leave me alone.

Tim

[tia1500]

Hi all
Teachertartman and val and including micou
When you lot lot have stopped telling us when were and how drunk or not you were they will start making this site XXX rated
:D:D:D

[lonelylass]

Adults only? Have we grown up enough? I think not, not me anyway!!:D

[tia1500]

No not me
Its so nice to read happy endings Val and Tarty Tim

[Coffeebean]

i'm not coffeebean on it. My h set it up and he doens't do nicknames. Coffeebean a nickname my mum gives me. Its a spin off from Beanie. Which she has called me all my life. I use it because nobody else calls it me and one day mum will sadly move on and so the name will be lost.

My h always very formally calls me serena. Sometimes I get "woman" which surprisingly I like. Today I am getting nothing because he is quietly seething in the background because it seems I have lost my mobile. As long as he's doing it quietly!!! I dare say i'll get the 3 hour leture tomorrow when he finds it really has gone. Very annoying really.

I love nicknames. You guys got any?

[Alice Alice]

ok i will serch under your proper name:)

as nor nicknames i have heeps

i like gabs these days
but i have gaby gabby gabbie gabie gabi (that was in order of the spelling)
i also get ...gaba gaba hay ...gabbaroo ...gabmyster...gabareena...gab man (my last name in that one)....people just have fun with my name i am always laughing, smiling at them all
nicknaming is a sign of endearment...my hubby hasn't given me a nickname in a long time:(
his nicknames are too embarrassing to mention :D