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27th December 2001, 11:22 PM
So we had yet another Christmas that left me in tears - my hubby didn't give me a card, let alone a present - can't remember the last time he made an effort for Christmas or my birthday. I gave him his presents, but he has left them in a carrier bag, unopened. It is so disheartening and I wonder why I bother.
This is the man who says he has God in his heart, spends all the time reading one religious book or another, or visiting religious sites on the Internet. He even said he didn't want decorations put up, but I put them up anyway - we have two young children and I don't see why they should be made to miss out. I'm the one who buys all the cards and presents, he makes no effort, not even for his own family. I don't understand it, he never used to be this way, but he has changed so much over the years that at times I feel I do not know him at all. I don't know if there is an answer, no point in asking him as he will either put up his brick wall or come out with something stupid to shut me up. Oh well, maybe next year........
This is the man who says he has God in his heart, spends all the time reading one religious book or another, or visiting religious sites on the Internet. He even said he didn't want decorations put up, but I put them up anyway - we have two young children and I don't see why they should be made to miss out. I'm the one who buys all the cards and presents, he makes no effort, not even for his own family. I don't understand it, he never used to be this way, but he has changed so much over the years that at times I feel I do not know him at all. I don't know if there is an answer, no point in asking him as he will either put up his brick wall or come out with something stupid to shut me up. Oh well, maybe next year........