regainyourlove
4th October 2007, 06:58 AM
My wife had an internet affairs
We have married for over 12 years with children. I love my wife and children so much. I find out some weeks ago that my wife is emotionally involved with a married man on the internet. I confronted her and she denied it. When I produced the evidence she than admitted it. However I have taken note on my wife's reasons for behaving in this manner. I am now trying to make some changes in my part. Trusting is now a big problem for me, because I feel my wife is still not generous with the truth.
During this affairs period she made some friends on the same site, one of which is a man who changed his name to a woman to cover his identity. I have told them to stay clear of our marriage to enable us heal. But my wife said he needs this people as friends. I don't mind if they are truely friends.
I promise to contact them when our marriage relationship improves, because currently they are only reminding me of the previous affairs and the hurt.
Please can anyone advise me. If this new internet male friend is a true friend of my wife should his own wife be informed by him that he has an internet friend? should the friendship be keep secret in any way? . Can this lead to another affair if it is not open?
Thanx everyone!!!
Regainyourlove
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We have married for over 12 years with children. I love my wife and children so much. I find out some weeks ago that my wife is emotionally involved with a married man on the internet. I confronted her and she denied it. When I produced the evidence she than admitted it. However I have taken note on my wife's reasons for behaving in this manner. I am now trying to make some changes in my part. Trusting is now a big problem for me, because I feel my wife is still not generous with the truth.
During this affairs period she made some friends on the same site, one of which is a man who changed his name to a woman to cover his identity. I have told them to stay clear of our marriage to enable us heal. But my wife said he needs this people as friends. I don't mind if they are truely friends.
I promise to contact them when our marriage relationship improves, because currently they are only reminding me of the previous affairs and the hurt.
Please can anyone advise me. If this new internet male friend is a true friend of my wife should his own wife be informed by him that he has an internet friend? should the friendship be keep secret in any way? . Can this lead to another affair if it is not open?
Thanx everyone!!!
Regainyourlove
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Love does hurt,I can now understand!!!