one year on, finding things difficult

[heartbrokensusie]

Just a short question to you all. If you had the telephone number and address of the person your husband had an affair with would you confront her?...........feeling low at the moment.

[calmfornow]

Hi Susie,
Sorry that you are feeling low. It won't last forever, just go with it and wait for it to pass.
I wouldn't contact the ow. She's simply not worth it. You can retain your dignity with the fact that you didn't stoop to her level. You are better than her and your h is a very stupid man to have chosen her over you. He probably does regret it but he's not going to let you know that is he? Chin up, the future is as bright as we allow it to be.
Take care and post on here. There is always somebody around that you can talk to.
cfn. x

[AnnieP]

Hi Susie. I have the name, telephone number, email address, MSN name, myspace page, home address and works address of my husband's OW. I am afraid I did sink as low as to send her an email to her work which said something along the lines of "I am glad you love my husband. So do I."
I just wanted her to know I had a way of contacting her. Sad really. I wish I hadn't now. It achieved nothing!
Don't contact her. If she is out to keep him, it will empower her knowing you are worried about her. Best remain a mystery to her.

[Ginger God]

Susie...the girls are right..I see the other guy most times that I pick my kids up or they are dropped off at mines. If he ever attempts to speak to me I just wouldnt respond...and on another note I wouldnt spit on the guy if he was on fire!:p
It does pass its 21 months for me now and my kids are in Bulgaria with their Mum just now but with him as well and it genuinely doesnt bother me.
My son has already put a few folk right to the effect that he is not their Dad...if Carlsberg did family moments..I would have loved to see that one.

Graham