Stevet
22nd June 2007, 11:53 AM
Hi All,
Don't really know how to start this, but I am on an all time low. I recently got married (26th May 2007) but on my honeymoon my wife told me that she thinks she is going to have to end it! She has not been herself for sometime and tells me that she is not in love with me anymore. She swears that she still cares for me and loves me, she just doesn't feel an attraction, lust or like she is in love anymore....
We got back from honeymoon a week yesterday and to be honest my life has been hell since. The only person I have spoken to is my close friend and business partner, I am so scared of how I am going to cope.
Last night I had a good talk with my wife and I am certain she is ready to end things. I am 100% sure that if I had pushed for an answer last night she would have told me it was over, I think she only hasn't ended it yet because she is scared herself of what she is going to do, but more so how I will take it. We have a house together and a dog so things are far from simple, I am absolutely devestated and can't think of anything else as I am sure you can imagine.
Although this revelation came as a massive shock, it isn't the first time I have been alerted to her fears. The day I returned from my stag do (6 weeks before the wedding) she told me she wasn't sure if she could go ahead with the wedding and wasn't sure if it was what she wanted anymore. This was a difficult time as you can imagine, however I thought we had worked through it....obviously not!
We have been together for 8 1/2 years (since she was 16 and I was 18) so as you can imagine we have both grown up together. Another significant point to note is Laura changed jobs back in November, she had been an Air hostess for 3 - 4 years and now works for the same airline but on the ground. She has a new found social life with her work friends over there and I fear this may have opened up her eyes to a new life she didn't have before.
I don't expect anyone to be able to give me a miracle cure, I am starting to accept that things may be over as there is nothing I can do to make her love me, I am just curious to see if anyone out there has had any kind of similar experience they could help me relate to.
Thank you.....
Steve
Don't really know how to start this, but I am on an all time low. I recently got married (26th May 2007) but on my honeymoon my wife told me that she thinks she is going to have to end it! She has not been herself for sometime and tells me that she is not in love with me anymore. She swears that she still cares for me and loves me, she just doesn't feel an attraction, lust or like she is in love anymore....
We got back from honeymoon a week yesterday and to be honest my life has been hell since. The only person I have spoken to is my close friend and business partner, I am so scared of how I am going to cope.
Last night I had a good talk with my wife and I am certain she is ready to end things. I am 100% sure that if I had pushed for an answer last night she would have told me it was over, I think she only hasn't ended it yet because she is scared herself of what she is going to do, but more so how I will take it. We have a house together and a dog so things are far from simple, I am absolutely devestated and can't think of anything else as I am sure you can imagine.
Although this revelation came as a massive shock, it isn't the first time I have been alerted to her fears. The day I returned from my stag do (6 weeks before the wedding) she told me she wasn't sure if she could go ahead with the wedding and wasn't sure if it was what she wanted anymore. This was a difficult time as you can imagine, however I thought we had worked through it....obviously not!
We have been together for 8 1/2 years (since she was 16 and I was 18) so as you can imagine we have both grown up together. Another significant point to note is Laura changed jobs back in November, she had been an Air hostess for 3 - 4 years and now works for the same airline but on the ground. She has a new found social life with her work friends over there and I fear this may have opened up her eyes to a new life she didn't have before.
I don't expect anyone to be able to give me a miracle cure, I am starting to accept that things may be over as there is nothing I can do to make her love me, I am just curious to see if anyone out there has had any kind of similar experience they could help me relate to.
Thank you.....
Steve