farny
23rd April 2007, 09:42 PM
We've been married nearly 13 years,together for 16. Like all couples we've had our fair share of troubles including depression suffered by both at different times, miscarraige and fir along time we've been sleeping seperatly, (not through choice on my part). We could not talk without feeling very uncomfortable.
I took along time to realize how stupid we have been and i have tried so hard to put things right. I thought we would somehow claw things back. But then last week she told me that it's too late. things have gone on too long and she cannot move on from these thoughts. She also told me of an interest in someone else. She says nothing has happened, and it's all on a mental level, but he has asked her to move in.
We don't argue, we are good friends. But it is over. I don't want it to be over. We have two lovely children who are taking it all very well, but i can't stand this sadness, that it's all gone.
I took along time to realize how stupid we have been and i have tried so hard to put things right. I thought we would somehow claw things back. But then last week she told me that it's too late. things have gone on too long and she cannot move on from these thoughts. She also told me of an interest in someone else. She says nothing has happened, and it's all on a mental level, but he has asked her to move in.
We don't argue, we are good friends. But it is over. I don't want it to be over. We have two lovely children who are taking it all very well, but i can't stand this sadness, that it's all gone.