Cyber sex Is it cheating or Not????

[mand]

Hello to all!
My question for you all ! What is your opinion on cyber sex??? Is it cheating or not??

I ask this because My husband of 1.5 years was just caught cheating on me with several women and he was begging for a second chance. which I hadn't desided what to do (it's only been a week).Over the weekend I went downstairs to ask him a question and caught him in the act (cyber sex) of corse he went crazy cuz he got caught! Get this he blamed me cuz I won't give him sex!!! how funny is that he gets caught cheating and he thinks he should be getting some when our marriage is on the line lol!!!

So I am not up on the cyber sex thing but I always thought it was cheating am I right or wrong anyone please - can I get a opinion of what others think or feel on the issue???

[Mike56]

Sex is sex - cyber or real, sex is sex. But there's a bigger question here - look within the marriage to see how you can work things out!

Apologies if I've missed your story / other posts, but I can't hlep but wonder why he feels it necessary to form a cyber relationship with someone else?

Mike

[tinkerbell1075]

Absolutley it is....It doesn't matter if he has never met her before or even spoken with her on the phone. Whether it be through a webcam, email etc....Any intimate act with another real live person is considered cheating in my book.

[Raymond]

It is being unfaithful. Our sexual intimacy belongs to the one we are comitted to. A lot of men don't understand that though or pretend they don't. Sex is a precious almost holy thing that you cannot get involved with outside of that special relationship, without reaping confusion and betrayal.

If hubby realises this then things can be worked out in the relationship (and the bedroom) if both partners are willing.

Raymond