deano
10th April 2007, 10:40 PM
this to me is the most out of this world thing that is happening to me and i don't know what to do next.
we've had or problems in our marriage but i don't think there much different to what my parents or friends have dealt with in their marriages, but when we signed up for the internet it was all a bit of fun to go in chat rooms and have a laugh, any way to cut a long story short my wife got friendly with this one guy in this chat room and something we used to share then became just her thing as she would get cross if i was in the room 'spying' on her, this went on for a while till i caught her in her silk nightie in a act with him on cam, i went mad and she laughed saying i was over reacting as it's not real, after a time i could take no more and walked out and for a few months or lives were good the space seemed to help' what i couldn't see can't hurt me' she then said she'd seen the error of her ways and wanted to get back together, which we did and all was fine till the guy on the comp came on the scene again, she has now gone and meet him and slept with him in a 'drunken state ' saying she now knows what she wants, that being me.. please help me and advice me on what to do next, will i ever trust her again, why can't she see what she's done to me, she's so matter of fact about it all, making me feel as if this is all my fault..help
we've had or problems in our marriage but i don't think there much different to what my parents or friends have dealt with in their marriages, but when we signed up for the internet it was all a bit of fun to go in chat rooms and have a laugh, any way to cut a long story short my wife got friendly with this one guy in this chat room and something we used to share then became just her thing as she would get cross if i was in the room 'spying' on her, this went on for a while till i caught her in her silk nightie in a act with him on cam, i went mad and she laughed saying i was over reacting as it's not real, after a time i could take no more and walked out and for a few months or lives were good the space seemed to help' what i couldn't see can't hurt me' she then said she'd seen the error of her ways and wanted to get back together, which we did and all was fine till the guy on the comp came on the scene again, she has now gone and meet him and slept with him in a 'drunken state ' saying she now knows what she wants, that being me.. please help me and advice me on what to do next, will i ever trust her again, why can't she see what she's done to me, she's so matter of fact about it all, making me feel as if this is all my fault..help